Need getting over her

[brockreiman]

My girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. She is a senior in HS and i'm 20. I know i sound like some kind of weirdo for dating a girl in HS but i have dated her for 3 years since she was a freshman and i was a junior. she was 15 and i was 17 we had a 5 month break when she was 17 and started dating again. But i really miss her. we haven't seen each other for 3 months and have rarely spoken. I tell her i miss her i Don't know she told me she has kissed another guy and now she has a new bf but she still loves me. She called my mom and said she was worried about me and that she loves me and maybe it will work out sometime in the future. I try to see other girls but i can't. I miss her if i'm with another girl i call the girls her name and think about her and the girls i'm with get upset. I just don't know what to do..I don't want to get over this girl but i know that i have to. I need to move on with my life. But everyday i think about her and I see that smile she used to give me. I was so close to her family and i thought she was the one. Please help me.

[CaliGuy]

Don't try and date other girls as you're not ready for that. You need to read the two guides in my signature, then ask any specific questions you may have.

 

Read first, do your best to understand the concepts and then post here with your questions.

[billy356]

The thing you probably dont want to hear is that there will be other "ones" and probably other breakups as well. I truly wish you never have to go through another breakup in your life, I dont wish this on anyone (well....)

 

Pay attention to CaliGuy's NC guide. It is the best thing for you right now.

 

Being close with the gf's family makes it especially hard, I have been through that too. NC applies to the family too.

 

Give yourself some time, go through the process and soon you will be ready to let go. It's not impossible to get over her, it just FEELS impossible right now...

 

I wish you the best,