DenverBachelor Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 The only contact my ex and I have had over the past week is contact that I have initiated. I texted her today and although she did reply back each time and says things like, "Ps: I like your new jacket. Good job :)" I just realized that I have my heart in the wrong place and I'm trying to take steps to reconcile while she's in a new relationship. It is wrong to myself, to her and to the past. I have to let go and move on and stop playing these "what if" games. Accepting the reality is very hard but she is not the one reaching out -- I am.
Beeotch Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 The only contact my ex and I have had over the past week is contact that I have initiated. I texted her today and although she did reply back each time and says things like, "Ps: I like your new jacket. Good job :)" I just realized that I have my heart in the wrong place and I'm trying to take steps to reconcile while she's in a new relationship. It is wrong to myself, to her and to the past. I have to let go and move on and stop playing these "what if" games. Accepting the reality is very hard but she is not the one reaching out -- I am. Goodjob!
sean1970 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 It is wrong to myself, to her and to the past. I have to let go and move on and stop playing these "what if" games. Accepting the reality is very hard but she is not the one reaching out -- I am. Step one, check.
Snomis2643 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 You're a better man than me bro. I just posted a thread about how confused I am over my situation and I don't know how to say 'forget her, time to move on.' Thats a step in the right direction. Don't torture your heart anymore. Stay strong and you'll be ok
hopesndreams Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 When she initiates contact, of that I'm sure because she'll be wondering where the heck you've gone to, what then?
sean1970 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 When she initiates contact, of that I'm sure because she'll be wondering where the heck you've gone to, what then? Dont reply... Step 2, Check...
j_cali_man Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Find a new love of your life after becoming stronger- Check #3 BTW, these checks don't bounce
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