Alf Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Hi, I was out with my girlfriend and some mates in a club. My girlfriend was dancing lots with one of my 'mates'. I actually think this guy is an ass, but he was there anyway. He was kind of bumping hips with her, and going down to the ground real slowly and all that sort of dancing. Anyway at one stage they actually fell over as they were down so low. My point is am I right to be annoyed about this?...I didn't say anything, I just acted cool, but it bugged the hell out of me....
Miad's Princess Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Of course you have right to be pi*sed, How would she like it if you were getting down and dirty with one of her friends or any other girl for that matter. Actually next time your in a club with her and this guy (if there is a next time) and if they start behaving in this manner again.....walk over to the nearest attractive female and start bumping and grinding with her. I am sure your gf will soon stop
Author Alf Posted November 30, 2009 Author Posted November 30, 2009 Yeah, that's what I thought....thanks
harmfulsweetz Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 That's inappropriate. It's once thing dancing with another guy, it's another thing dancing like that with another guy. I may dance with someone in a funny, spinning around joking on or just no touching kind of way, but not bumping and grinding. Jeez, do it to her next time see how she likes it. I always say act appropriate to how you want your partner to behave, it's a good indicator to determine how they feel. If you wouldn't like it, don't do it.
Dexter Morgan Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Hi, I was out with my girlfriend and some mates in a club. My girlfriend was dancing lots with one of my 'mates'. I actually think this guy is an ass, but he was there anyway. He was kind of bumping hips with her, and going down to the ground real slowly and all that sort of dancing. Anyway at one stage they actually fell over as they were down so low. My point is am I right to be annoyed about this? of course you have a right to be annoyed at your so-called gf and another guy bumping and grinding. they were basically having simulated sex. I was in a same situation years ago. A "gf" of mine and I were someplace, she gets just a tad tipsy and goes to dance with some of her female friends, while I was chatting with some of my buds at the bar. One of my friends grabs my face and turns my head to the dancefloor and there she was, backing it up into another guy, this guy with his hands on her hips acting like he is effin her from behind. I go right out to the floor and said, "and just what the hell do you think you are doing?". The guy realized she had a bf, put his hands in the air, backed up and walked off. I just looked at her, turned around to get my coat and headed for the door. She followed me and tried to explain that it was just dancing. I told her that rubbing her ass on another guy's crotch is not JUST dancing and I wouldn't put up with it. She said, "it didn't mean anything", to which my reply was, "then I guess you shouldn't have been doing it in the first place", told her it was over and went home. Yes, you definitely have a right to be annoyed. people that simulate f#####g other people on the dancefloor, especially when its not their significant other, don't have a good track record of being faithful. And in my opinion, if she is bumping uglies on the dancefloor with another guy, I see it as being unfaithful. What do you think she'd do if some chick was backing her ass up on you on the dancefloor...you better believe she'd go ape s##t.
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