jjaded1 Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Short story: Broke up in Sept. Had absolutely NO contact for over 2 months til he calls me from work a week and a half ago(we both work at the same place) telling me a CO worker wanted to give me his #. After the call, I shoot him an email asking him not to contact me for things like that bec it hurts my feelings and is insensitive while I'm trying to move on.And getting over him is hard enough as it is without him. He replies with a short nasty email telling me that it's his job, and to get over it and he's moving out of the country in a week. I don't reply. So, today he msgs me on AIM apologizing for being mean or insensitive in his email. I reply, saying it's his job and not to worry about it.--thinking that's the end of the conversation. Then he says: I'm leaving Wednesday. And I reply(because, let's face it, I love him, miss him, and ultimately hope for a reconcilliation however slim the chances are): Are you excited? And then he goes to "away" mode without replying. So, I send one last message: I don't understand what happened, but for whatever it's worth-I'll miss you. I already miss you. I wish you luck and happiness on your adventure. You were a special part of my life and I hope you only remember the good times we had. Take care of yourself. Then, he signs off completely about 10 minutes later without reply. Whatever his intent is, I'm glad I sent it, because, I have had no closure in the situation at all, and even if I never hear from him again, I'm glad I said goodbye, and let him know how special he was to me. Why would he message me at all, if he didn't want to chat, why did he just dissapear like that??? Did he contact me because he misses me?
Odyssey Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 I thought you two got back together again in Sept?!? What happened? You were both walking on egg shells around each other and something broke? Who broke it this time?
sean1970 Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Why would he message me at all, if he didn't want to chat, why did he just dissapear like that??? Did he contact me because he misses me? See if this makes sense, "Wonder if she still cares? Ill message her.... Yep, she does." Then he gets the warm feeling and you are just left with questions. Brutal and cruel but probably true..
Author jjaded1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Posted November 30, 2009 I thought you two got back together again in Sept?!? What happened? You were both walking on egg shells around each other and something broke? Who broke it this time? No, we broke up in April, got back together a few weeks later(hence the eggshells) and had been together through Sept when we broke up again.
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