CanadianBornCutie Posted December 15, 2003 Posted December 15, 2003 He Says he had the girl of his dreams (me) and he had the career taking off and he had to focus on the career before it got away from him. he tells me he doesn't want me to wait around, but he says he hopes that someday we'll have a future together. and he never wants me out of his life.......and right now we've broken up but still dating and he says that if i do find someone new he'll have to love me in a different way. Btw it's not just cause he wants sex cause we don't always do that when we see each other.......we don't really need to Is he just saying that?
Bubbles Posted December 15, 2003 Posted December 15, 2003 Sounds to me that he wants to "DATE" you not live with you, court you, carry on a daily relationship with you. Sounds to me that he wants you but when it's convenient for him. Don't be anyones fool.....make sure that your needs are being met and if they are not.....you need to discuess it with him so he knows how you feel. If he knows how you feel, then he will better know how to treat you. Bubbles
Author CanadianBornCutie Posted December 15, 2003 Author Posted December 15, 2003 Thanks! he was honest with his feelings and i've been talking to him about mine. He now tries to call me more, and make time for me around MY schedule!
Caddy Posted December 15, 2003 Posted December 15, 2003 Sounds to me like he may have serious committment issues. So take his advice and don't just wait around for him. Because if you were the girl of his dreams, he would make sure you didn't get away instead of worrying about a job.
Author CanadianBornCutie Posted December 15, 2003 Author Posted December 15, 2003 Yeah i know he's been hurt VERY badly in the past....and the career is one of pro-wrestling......so it takes alot of time and commitment and sometimes he has to move away to places and that was the dilemma, he didn't want to hold me back from anything....... but yeah i'm not waiting around i'm moving on......but i nkow he's been hurt very badly.....his past has not been very good family and otherwise......so thanks for the advice
Author CanadianBornCutie Posted December 15, 2003 Author Posted December 15, 2003 We were serious for a year and he even gave me a promise ring and we talked about getting married this year so yeah definate commitment issues we both realized it was too soon!
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