brock9911 Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 it seems how ever long i can go without feeling bad, theres always a relapse. to no prevail, the holiday sucked. meanwhile im used to being with my ex, but i made the best of it. some family, lots of friends, some partying. it all kept my mind fairly clear. than of coarse i get the notorious contact from the ex saying happy thanksgiving. not being an a-hole, i decide to text back. i than get another text, a friend of mine had texted her...ok i dont care. i dont want to know your business anymore, we are not together and i dont need you to tell me who or what your doing. she than proceeds to say she wants to drop off christmas orniments that i had up in her attic. fine, hopefully this is the last of it. of coarse not, theres more and her and her parents couldnt get to it. now i know its going to lead to another text, another meeting...im just sick of this...let it end!!! oh and to top it off, i had severe anxiety for abotu a day because of this sh*t, why do i let it bother me
nobmagnet Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 because you are human. Tell her you dont want the ornaments, or anything else she has to offer. It sounds like an excuse to check on you and make sure you still miss her. Grab you nuts in one hand the phone in the other call her for the last time tell her you dont want to have contact and to stop it. dont say its because you hurt. Just say you have moved on. Thanks but to thanks. oh that sounds harsh! But I get annoyed when they contact you for no particular reason. Do you need or what the blummin ornaments??probably not or you would have asked for them. just me. take care
Author brock9911 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Posted November 30, 2009 I honestly forgot that they were there, its the first holiday without her so i didnt know if i had them at my parents house or hers...thing is their not her ornaments their my childhood ones, so their kinda important to me
nobmagnet Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 I agree with sean. Try not to see her if you can help it. Its not going to help how you feel. x
Author brock9911 Posted December 1, 2009 Author Posted December 1, 2009 unfortunately we have no mutual friends. all of them were mine, she literally dropped all of hers. and all of my friends dont want like or talk to her. at this point it doesnt really matter, ill just deal with the sh*t thats being dealt...i honestly dont even know why i still write on here, it never gives me any satisfaction
sean1970 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 ill just deal with the sh*t thats being deal It would be different if you took over the dealing...
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