Author jerbear Posted December 17, 2009 Author Posted December 17, 2009 (edited) Dont bother. She is turning down your invitations without suggesting a different day to go out with you, Shes not interested, but is too chicken to tell you that. The time to quit is now. Yeah I figured that oh well... She could have just not responded and I would have figured it out. Edited December 17, 2009 by jerbear
xpaperxcutx Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 Whoa J_B, where have you been all this time? Please quit while you're ahead. This girl is clearly not interested, and please please keep your head up. You're a great guy, and another great girl will come along just to get captivated by you.
bbasher75 Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 Well it has been awhile since I started a thread. Went on a date Friday night and well at the end of the night she mentioned she'll call me. Well... she was the passive one letting me lead and walking behind me one. Well I got an email from her saying she prefers email contact and asked if I'm going to a party later this week. I don't think I made an good impression. And I did tentatively plan two things party night. I told her I might be there since I have events almost every night this week and might be out of town that night. ( I do have friends out of town and I visit them often) Oh well... back to others. Hey you think thats bad? I had a girl jerk my chain for a month only to "friend" me...week later I have to watch her tongue my co-worker, who just happens to be an a-hole bad boy that the women oh-so-love. Nevermind that he's ugly as sin and I'm a handsome dude who would treat her with respect. What girl would want that? (yes I'm bitter) I wont sugar coat it bear, it wont get better. She is not "waiting around the corner". The only thing waiting around the corner is a slow, painful death for you and I. Goodnight!
Author jerbear Posted December 18, 2009 Author Posted December 18, 2009 On a positive note: going to an R rated PJ party tonight!
Author jerbear Posted December 18, 2009 Author Posted December 18, 2009 I wont sugar coat it bear, it wont get better. She is not "waiting around the corner". The only thing waiting around the corner is a slow, painful death for you and I. Goodnight! I know that feeling but there are other things in life that can help keep your mind off of things. There is more to life and it is ok to be bitter. The question now, is what are YOU going to do about YOUR OWN happiness?
Author jerbear Posted December 23, 2009 Author Posted December 23, 2009 When it rains it pours! Or in my case snows! An old lady "friend" whom I've been in contact asked me had dinner the other day. During dinner she asked about board / card games and other things. I said sure. Long story short, one of her parents is not doing well and is near the end of life. My friend / old love interests said it would be good to play board games and cards games with her and her parents. I said fine but told her that she knows how I feel about her. There is no point for me to spend time with her and parents playing board/card games; we're not dating or getting married so why should I invest that time. I also told her I don't mind helping her out once in awhile because I want to but I have my own life, desires, goals, and wishes. She knows I'm actively pursing dates, being active, joined a few groups, and active in local politics. She asked what I wanted for Christmas, I said you already know, plus you're talking to a guy who wouldn't care if you called at 2am; she immediately shut me down. The lady (part of a couple) on the next table looked at us funny with an surprised look and WTF. She got very upset yesterday and today. I said whatever and she hung up. So far: nice way to end the year! dating life -2 for December but who is counting.
Author jerbear Posted December 28, 2009 Author Posted December 28, 2009 (edited) Someone I've met a few years ago while on a trip now wants to talk to me. I gave the contacts permission to give her my contact information. I got an email from her. The old lady friend, she called and we had a short chat about things. I asked her to a date and she bought up that she can't have overnight trips. Kinda weird that she bought it up. Women are weird. I think the start of 2010 will be interesting. I just pimped myself out. Made new friends and asked to be introduced to his single friends on Facebook of all things! LOL ok, back to packing for the road trip. Edited December 28, 2009 by jerbear Spelling and grammer; LS women are notorious on spelling :p
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