skreen23 Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Since my ex-fiancee broke it off with me several months ago i have been almost angry (a very exhausting emotion). I was really hoping she was miserable and unhappy. I bumped into her yesterday and we had a very short chat. It was a bit weird and i wasnt sure how i felt. Later on i was a bit, off, little bit down. But today i felt happy for her. During our chat she told me a bit about her new life, new job, friends etc. Today, thinking about it, i felt happy that she was happy. I texted her and said it was weird seeing her but i glad things are going well for her. She texted back agreeing it was weird, said i looked well and a few other pleasantries. I sent back a text teasing her a bit about her new job. I feel a bit better in myself that i no longer harbour unhealthy, angry feelings at the mo. Hope to god the anger doesn't come back. I think the best thing now is to pull back and go back to no contact so i can continue to heal. Life is very strange sometimes.
rickigal Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Well I think that you are no longer angry is a HUGE sign of moving on with your new life without her. You are coming to acceptance and that is GREAT news. You should feel wonderful about that. NC is up to you. If you feel it will help you heal even further than you should go NC again. It is about healing after all...we all want to feel good.
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