tranceguy Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 I'm not caring about hooking up or actually wanting to date someone. It's very strange, the second I get over an ex for good.....I suddenly meet a girl and we get together for a relationship. Why is it that when I could care less about having a girl and enjoy "me" time, I get involved in a relationship?
Boundary Problem Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 I understand the desire for 'me' time. Did you know that Judges can give "directions" and "orders". A direction is a suggestion, and is not mandatory. An order must be followed - exactly to the letter. During my "me" time, I'm trying to figure out what would be a direction and what would be an order. And what the consequences for contempt would be.
Pedigree Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 I'm not caring about hooking up or actually wanting to date someone. It's very strange, the second I get over an ex for good.....I suddenly meet a girl and we get together for a relationship. Why is it that when I could care less about having a girl and enjoy "me" time, I get involved in a relationship? Congratulations. I guess when you care less about getting with a girl, you're not gonna be desperate. And lack of desperation= attractive. Haven't been as lucky as you, but it's an approach that I'd like to keep up on. Thus far, it's helped me to be more relaxed when I'm in the company of girls.
billy356 Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 I agree it all boils down to self-confidence, i don't think women are attracted to apathy but when you arent trying so hard like the rest of us have all been guilty of, you come off as secure in yourself, confident, etc.. I think all people are attracted to people like that both sexually and non-sexually.
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