DSM2709 Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Well, those of you who have read my past posts know what I went through over the summer. I had a really hard time with my breakup with my ex of almost two years, who I loved very much. Well it seems that the tables have turned. My ex, who I do stay in contact every once and while (Don't ask me why, I know) spoke with me recently about why she can't hold onto a man. Well, I told her she had a man (me), but I wasn't good enough. She said that I was always walking behind her instead of with her or ahead of her, among other reasons why we didn't work out....whatever. Well, I am currently seeing someone new, and loving every minute of it, and my ex is balling her eyes out to me over the phone wondering why she can't hold onto a relationship. GEE, I WONDER WHY MYSELF!!!!! I plan on moving back to where my roots are in the spring, and can't wait to get a fresh start once the new year kicks in with my new girlfriend. Justin Timberlake said it best, "what goes around comes back around"
trueblue72ny Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 thats awesome to hear things are going good with your new girl! i think it is completely retarded your ex said one of the reasons why it didnt work out was because you were walking behind her, that is completely ridiculous. good luck with the new girl. it is good to hear you have moved on and are happy!
DenverBachelor Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Now now. We must not wish ill-will on others or find laughter in their struggles. In order to be gentleman, we must conduct ourselves as gentleman.
Beeotch Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Now now. We must not wish ill-will on others or find laughter in their struggles. In order to be gentleman, we must conduct ourselves as gentleman. I Agree....
worldcavedin Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 sorry mate, but the heading you put into this thread(revenge best served cold) suggests that you have not moved on entirely, but good on you and hope you find happiness in your new relationship
JaggedRoad Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Justin Timberlake said it best, "what goes around comes back around" Don't be so quick to drop quotations without realizing that you too are susceptible to karma. When you see others less fortunate than you, remember that you were once in their position. Love them instead of finding pleasure in their misery.
HeavenOrHell Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 I sounds like you still care about her. I don't want my ex to hurt, I don't want revenge for being dumped, it's not a crime to dump someone. Was she cruel to you in some way for you to feel like this? Well, those of you who have read my past posts know what I went through over the summer. I had a really hard time with my breakup with my ex of almost two years, who I loved very much. Well it seems that the tables have turned. My ex, who I do stay in contact every once and while (Don't ask me why, I know) spoke with me recently about why she can't hold onto a man. Well, I told her she had a man (me), but I wasn't good enough. She said that I was always walking behind her instead of with her or ahead of her, among other reasons why we didn't work out....whatever. Well, I am currently seeing someone new, and loving every minute of it, and my ex is balling her eyes out to me over the phone wondering why she can't hold onto a relationship. GEE, I WONDER WHY MYSELF!!!!! I plan on moving back to where my roots are in the spring, and can't wait to get a fresh start once the new year kicks in with my new girlfriend. Justin Timberlake said it best, "what goes around comes back around"
Beeotch Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Don't be so quick to drop quotations without realizing that you too are susceptible to karma. When you see others less fortunate than you, remember that you were once in their position. Love them instead of finding pleasure in their misery. I agree The thing is...when you take pleasure in their misery, it also comes back around to you. Kind of like the idea that if you are digging a hole for your enemy you should dig one for yourself also or you will probably fall into one also. True moving on and getting good karma is when your ex is suffering you can actually still show compassion towards them and not laugh and gloat about their misfortune.
xoxo88 Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Be careful. Your lady might be just a rebound. The fact that you call it revenge sounds like you wanna hurt your ex and that means that you're not over her and you still care about her. Right now you might think you're happy. But are you happy because you're hurting your ex or are you happy because you love your current girlfriend? Think about it.
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