sharay Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Hello, I have this problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for 10 1/2 years now. We have been living together for 6 years now and everytime I ask if we are going to get married he say's he's not ready to get married. I am 28 and he is 31. He comes up with every excuse to why he don't want to get married. One reason is that I just want to be on his insurance. Another reasoin is that women just want some sercuity. I am tired of living like this. It is really bothering me since I have been trying to get my life together. I really want a family with this man. I really love him but I dont love him as much as I love God. So my question is: Should I pack my things and leave?
jerseyboy Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Doesnt sound as if anything will change if you stay. Make sure you can accept the consequences, and with any luck, he will be resolved to change his mind. Dont be bitter and mean about it. I wouldnt start a fight. Just I love you, but I cant be someones gf forever
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