Pentel Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 i feel that we could get back together, that what she said yesterday was just a lie, that someday we could get back, i just don't want to forget her, i don't want her to forget me,
NopeNah Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 From my experience,past and present, you have to. I've never had an ex return while I was waiting/hoping for them to. It was always after I had moved on. Some I tried again with most I didn't as I was more happy without them.
HeavenOrHell Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 (edited) I feel the same pentel I just have no idea if I am kidding myself or not, time will tell I guess. Edited November 28, 2009 by HeavenOrHell
Arabella Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 Oh hell... I've been there before. I wanted my ex to come back to me so badly. I knew he eventually would and I waited... I waited until I thought he wasn't coming back anymore and I started to let go. And then he did come back. He broke it off again three days ago. It lasted one month. None of the reasons why it didn't work the first time around had changed. Even then, I can't help but harbor that tiny flame of hope in my heart that one day he might straighten himself out and come back to me. But I know I'm kidding myself... Arabella
Author Pentel Posted November 28, 2009 Author Posted November 28, 2009 yea, i will have to wait, but meanwhile i will work on myself, the problems we used to have, my insecurities, so if one day she does come back, we will be together many years
Author Pentel Posted November 29, 2009 Author Posted November 29, 2009 she said that she could ever get back with me, cause her parents where mad at me, and i don't know why i don't believe it, i don't know if im lying to myself,
Arabella Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Just don't expect her to come back. Work on yourself for yourself and move on. For as long as you're still harboring that tiny bit of hope, there's little chance that she will come back. What she said, though, sounds like an excuse... like she was trying to place the blame for the break up on an external factor. And lastly, even if she does come back... remember relationships are rarely made (or ruined) by one single person. Both people make mistakes. If you fix yourself and she hasn't... the relationship might still not work. Arabella
Author Pentel Posted November 29, 2009 Author Posted November 29, 2009 she used to say she wanted some time off so she can work on herself, and i can work on myself, and it will be a "love test" to see if we truly love each other,
Arabella Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Well, there's a saying... "Absence is to love as wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and kindles the great." So, in her mind, this is what she may have been referring to... and it makes sense. I just don't think you should be waiting around. If she comes back after a time, then you will know she really loved you. Arabella
Author Pentel Posted November 29, 2009 Author Posted November 29, 2009 i hope that her love for me is as strong as my love for her
Author Pentel Posted November 29, 2009 Author Posted November 29, 2009 D; i hope time will make it all better n not worse
Arabella Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 You'll be fine. Time heals all wounds It doesn't mean you will just stop loving her, but over time... her absence will become easier to endure. Arabella
DenverBachelor Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 i hope that her love for me is as strong as my love for her If it was so, you wouldn't be posting here. Join me in letting go and moving on to bigger and better things. I know it is tough. Take my hand, brother, and let's get moving.
Author Pentel Posted November 29, 2009 Author Posted November 29, 2009 aarrgg i just got to let go, if its meant to be it'll be, but i'm afraid that God has another plan,
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