mendsley Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 I had to see my ex the other night when I was picking up my son and it was really hard for me. I have been sitting here trying to think of why she is no good to me, hopefully it will ease the pain. I encourage anyone else to put down why thier ex is no good for you. 1. She is no longer in love with me 2. She fell in love with another person while we were together 3. The only feeling she has for me is regret 4. She is a liar 5. She was never sexually attracted to me 6. She now is with someone else 7. She ripped my f$$cking heart out 8. She tries to hide her emotions 9. She gives up way to easy on things 10. She never listened to my emotions, only hers mattered I do feel a little better, we only tend to focus on thier percieved positives and not the things that are reality.
nobmagnet Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 great thread! 1. He lost his respect for me 2. He left me and the kids for a woman at work 3. He didnt try to make our relationship work 4. He was really bad in bed!! 5. He is a liar 6. He has let our children down. 7. I dont like him 8. I went out last night with me mates and had a snog with an amazing bloke!! hahahaha back at ya!
illadelph Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 (edited) you know, this is exactly what i needed. thanks so much for starting this. (1) he's totally self absorbed (2) he's a complete prick (3) he left me for no reason (4) he continues to speak to me with absolute disrespect and a lack of regard for my feelings (5) he pities me, always messaging me to "check up" (6) he wants us to be friends, but wants me to "be there" (*wink wink*) until he finds someone interesting, lest I forget that he is looking (7) he expects me to support him and his decisions but doesn't give a rat's behind when i have an issue ugh, i feel a bit better, this was therapeutic ... i just keep telling myself that i deserve way more than that list. i'm worth more than that list of characteristics. so, moving on. Edited November 28, 2009 by illadelph
Arabella Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 1. He never trusted me, nor was he worthy of my trust. 2. He said he loved me, but never backed it up with facts. 3. He cared only about himself and what he needed. 4. He would never tell the truth about anything. 5. He was never there when I needed him. 6. He was cruel and inconsiderate of my feelings. 7. He took it out on me every time he had a rough patch. 8. He treated me like I was disposable. Now I want you, now I don't. 9. He never put any effort to make our relationship work. ... I could go on... but you guys get the idea. The kicker is that I actually knew about all this when we were together and I would ignore it and hope it would change... but it never did. Arabella
Bulldozed Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 1 - She cheated on me the week of our first xmas together w/her ex 2 - 2 wks later pledged her undying love for me 3 - emotionally unstable 4 - beautiful woman, but regrettably, nothing between the ears. 5 - tragically low self-esteem 6 - always eager to help everyone in her life, except our relationship. 7 - probably cheated on me again before we broke up. 8 - still lives with mommy and daddy at age 41 9 - divorced twice (cheated on first husband, and probably the 2nd one?) 10 - No idea how to handle or behave in a normal, healthy relationship 11 - Terrible communicator 12 - Low self-image 13 - self centered 14 - Pre-occupied with what others think of her. 15 - Serial Relationship killer
Trinitron Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 This looks fun can I play? 1) She's a golddigger. 2) She's self centered. 3) She used me as an emotional pincushion. 4) She, is a compulsive liar. 5) She's a chronic user of people. 6) She is a destroyer of Men. 7) She's a walking talking disaster area. 8) She's an uncureable flirt, bordering on slutyness. 9) She's horrible with money, she thinks she's thrifty. 10) She's the most beautiful thing I've ever laid eye's on. Damnit I just screwed that up didn't I? Sorry couldn't help it. Trinitron
rickigal Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 1. Afraid of commitment 2. Led me on 3. Cheated on his wife before they separated 4. Not a man (worried about my debt) 5. Non-supportive 6. STILL DRINKING and lying about it 7. self-centered 8. Wants to use me for sex 9. No communication 10. Not divorced and no plans to 11. Not good for my kids 12. Went back and forth a million times (I want you, no I don't, yes I do)
nobmagnet Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 anyone see a pattern here??? you are not alone i see. They all apear to be the blummin same!!!!!!!!
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