Pentel Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 soo, my ex, a week after we broke up said she wanted to come back with me, she still loved me, but she wan't sure, and we've been trying to, but she keeps getting mad cause she thinks i'm still very jealous, and today she told me she couldn't get back with me cause her dad got mad at me cause her mom told her that i used to get tru her phone and **** like that (which isn't entirely true, i did it once, and the other times i was seeing her pictures of us) and that her dad got really mad at me, and that he couldn't do that to them and she couldn't get back at me, and i don't think that story is true, cause her mom doesn't tell **** to her dad cause he got cardiac problems, and if he gets mad or something he can have a heart attack, and she said she wanted some time off, and i think this is her playing with me so she can get her time.
Author Pentel Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 and i've done SO MANY things for her, really SOOOOOOO many, i can only hope she realises that later, and i hope time will heal my cuts too
mickleb Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I have to admit, Pentel, that I got a bit confused reading that. Perhaps it's because it's all a bit confusing? She doesn't know if she's coming or going and if she had an ounce of decent communcation skills in her, she'd be able to calmly explain to Pops that he needn't get so stressed that he has an aneurysm, as she trusts you completely and knows you've done so much for her and yadda, yadda, I'm afraid. She has got issues with you for some reason and is telling you she can't really deal with them, at the moment. That much is clear. What can you do but let her walk away, when she is doing just that? Clinging on will only stress her out more, right now. Give her space, give yourself space and then both of your brains will be able to understand if there is, actually, anything worth saving. Remember right now, though, NEVER to presume she will come back. She may never. Doesn't mean you can't pour all that love you've got to give into someone else one day, or even yourself, today. Take care. x
an hero Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 It has only been a week. I think you need to talk to her ASAP really work it out. The longer this drags on the worse you will feel, and it is just delaying your recovery time if things don't work out. Don't let her parents get in the way if you really do want to work things out.
GrayClouds Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 Pentel, i know you don't want to hear it, you didn't the first time i told you but, sorry, it is over. At best she is trying to be kind to you by not coming out and saying it, at worst she playing you for fun. Either way she as moved on and the best you can do is to read the following, stick to it, and move on yourself: So you want a second chance? I am sorry.
Author Pentel Posted November 28, 2009 Author Posted November 28, 2009 if she love me, why did we made love this monday? or why did she kissed me last week? thats what i dont understand she said she "gave me a chance" this tuesday, but for a missunderstood she took it away
GrayClouds Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 if she love me, why did we made love this monday? or why did she kissed me last week? thats what i dont understand she said she "gave me a chance" this tuesday, but for a missunderstood she took it away DUDE, she is playing with you, using you to make her feel good, you did not make love she **** you like she is F#cking with your mind.
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