Paralyzed Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 So, the ex is still the ex. She has done some pretty odd things that I have written about on her many times. It was her choice to break up with me and then get back, then break up after creating some more drama. Since September, a drunk dial, an email, texting at first after a week or so. Had me come and get my things and left out one of the items. Very inconsistent behavior. However the one thing she has done consistently is block and unblock me on fbook. Now, realize she is not my friend on FB. HAsn't been since the summer. The only thing she can see is my profile pic and thats all i can see of her. But, every week, like clockwork, she will have me blocked then the next week unblocked. I dont get it. As far as I know she is seeing someone, the guy she showed off to me and my friends at a club a few weeks ago. Should I go ahead and block this woman and leave it at that? Or do as I have been doing and not react? My friends are split down the middle. Some say it's stooping to her level if I block her. But, i'm also tired of having the urge to search her and see if she is there this week or not. What would you do?
HeavenOrHell Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I would block her so that you won't be able to torture yourself on fb anymore, not easy though I know.
EskimoPassingBy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I wouldn't block her. It only means you're taking notice of what shes doing. Act like what she is doing is invisible and it will eventually stop. Once you show signs that you notice her, theres other ways for her to pester you.
kyta Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Me personally would say stop searching to see if she has or hasnt blocked you, you look so your just as interested ...............
adamt Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Just block her so your imagination cant run wild. My ex is back in my thoughts and occassionally she comes up on mutual friends' facebook so i am going to have to block her again. its the only way. your ex will probably gt intouch after you block her. but dont read into it too much. she is just being nosey on why you want to do it.
flosskel Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Yea, don't even bother blocking her. Just go on as if nothing is happening and ignore her that way.
Back2dabasics Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 i feel you. my situation is kinda like yours. but instead i disactivated my facebook and it stayed that way for 2 months. i'll activate it when i get over my ex, get my ***** together, or until i get a new girlfriend. till now...its NO CONTACT. I know myself that i would search her name and see her public page and the new man she seeing so i disactivate to avoid temptation and pain. IMO, i would just disactivate it till you get over her. by the way facebook is just facebook..nothing serious.
adamt Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 I've been broken up 6 months and been in NC all that time apart from once when we bumped into each other a few weeks ago. I handled it ok but this week she is back on my mind so i have blocked her again on facebook. Not sure why she is in my thoughts. I think it is the thought of xmas and new year on the horizon and i just keep thinking of last xmas and new year with her. i've gone out and bought a ps3 which i hope will help me through.
GrayClouds Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 I wouldn't block her. It only means you're taking notice of what shes doing. Act like what she is doing is invisible and it will eventually stop. Once you show signs that you notice her, theres other ways for her to pester you. Do what is best for you, she and what she will think, at this point is, no longer a veriable worth consideration. That is true for any other question for you her on out. good luck, sorry about your loss.
boogieboy Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 Shes your ex for good, it doesnt matter what she thinks. Block her for your own closure. You shouldnt be checking her facebook in the first place, thats like breaking NC. Checking her facebook is holding on to a connection.
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