jaydumped Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 (edited) Hi Just wanted to get your thoughts does this sound too obsessive? i recently made up an alternative facebook page (pretending to be a hot girl) and started chatting to my Exs rebound man, they apparently split after a week as she was still always talking about her Ex (me) and how much she loved him to the rebound man. I didnt cause the breakup by this but gave advice to the rebound man basically he would call her up everyday and talk for 7 hours and he would end up with a massive bill, i sort of felt sorry for him, he seemed like a nice bloke and told him not too for that came true she dumped him and he came me for advice or should i say the imaginary Facebook girl i helped re-assuring the rebound man giving him advice that there are other fish out there and that the girl was a headcase. The worse thing is he told me everthing about there 1 week relationship and it was too much but like poker you want to see the river, the rebound guy told me things like every little detail of there relationship right down sexual details and dates, talk about finding too much info. I stopped this crap as it was too much too bare but 1 month later i had to see what was up, the last time i spoke to the rebound man he said that 1 month ago the Girl (my ex) said she was living in the City she got a job and that all was well and she was back with her Ex again (thats me!) Im thinking what the...well, ive deleted that Facebook page. Im out! Edited November 27, 2009 by jaydumped
DenverBachelor Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Hi Just wanted to get your thoughts does this sound too obsessive? i recently made up an alternative facebook page (pretending to be a hot girl) and started chatting to my Exs rebound man What the ... So what were you trying to achieve by doing all this? It wasn't enough to look at her facebook account so you needed to contact her rebound with a fake account and then get all the details of their week together? I'm not so sure if that's any smarter than walking into a dynamite factory and lighting up a smoke and leaning against one of the storage barrels. The second would probably be less painful for me. But what you are doing is stalking. That's bad. Stop it and start your healing process. What you did is just downright creepy and although I can understand why you did it, it doesn't excuse the fact that you did but lessoned learned. Just don't do that again because it is wrong on so many levels.
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