amtz Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Hi folks, Today something intense happened or at least for me was something really heavy so I well vent with you all to see what you guys think... I decided to go out on thanks giving night since I really had nothing to do. 2 of my closest buddies and myself went on bar hopping and had a beer or two (not to the point where we were wasted). We finally decided to stop by a new place where we were told was the "the new hot place in town" on weekends. The place was 1/4 of its total capacity and I needed to take a piss ASAP. I was taking a leak pleasantly and seconds later my friends rush in and say that they just saw my EX!!! My heart rate went up immediately when I heard this and I even made them swear since I thought it was a joke... Sure enough I scanned the place when I got out of the rest room and I saw her, I may add we didn't make eye contact, but my friends told me she was staring at me intensely. I said hi to some peeps that had a long time with out seeing and I told my friends to leave the place ASAP with out causing a big scene!!! Did I do right to leave the place all of a sudden with out even saying hi to her?? I know for a fact that she didn't notice I saw her, but she did see me, I was told she didn't look at nothing else but me or at least she had her eyes in my surrounding area!!! I may add she made me feel like crap when she broke up with me but I simply want to be a better person and I thought the best thing to do was to leave before I saw something painful as in seeing her with another guy or such things. (by the way my friends told me she was sitting with 2 other girls and the only guy there had his distance). She broke up with me a month ago and I'm much better comparing to day one, but at this point any insight will be greatly appreciated!!! Thanks for reading. Will pray for you
hopefulInFuture Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 you did the right thing. You should not care for her anymore. You should no longer care whether what you do or not do is right with regards to her. You are a free man. You should simply enjoy your life. Make her understand that you're going on with your life and that you're doing well without her. People admire those who are strong and independent.
Kaya Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Did I do right to leave the place all of a sudden with out even saying hi to her?? Yes, you did the right thing amtz.. I may add she made me feel like crap when she broke up with me but I simply want to be a better person and I thought the best thing to do was to leave before I saw something painful as in seeing her with another guy or such things. You did the best thing for you. All the best to you!
Author amtz Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 Thanks folks I feel much better now reading!!! For moments I felt I was back to square one. Will pray for you
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