XKatieX Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Has anyone ever been in a relationship that didn't work out for whatever reason, but still wanted to be with that person because you still cared about them? I'm going through this right now and it doesn't make any sense as to why I still want to work things out and be with him, yet I know it can't work out anymore. You would think if it didn't work out, I'd want to just move on, but for some reason I want to just because I care so much. He doesn't feel the same though, he wants to give up and doesn't care about me anymore, sucky situation. So give me your experiences and what you think
NoneoftheAbove Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 (edited) You said it yourself darlin "He doesn't feel the same though, he wants to give up and doesn't care about me anymore" this should be your reason to move on. You've done everything you can to work things out and showed him how much you care. I've been in same situation, you gotta see it this way if they don't want to work things out that means they don't want to be in a relationship. It doesnt take one person to make things work, both parties should be committed. Good luck Edited November 27, 2009 by NoneoftheAbove spelling
EskimoPassingBy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Yup. My ex didn't see the relationship the way I saw it. Unfortunately, I did every wrong move possible for a person to do after a break up. Don't try to convince him to give you another chance, his mind is decided. Try to move on. Its hard, I'm struggling to move on too but you have to try.
blackbear_703 Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Yep we're all there and doing that now. We tried to do everything we could to save our relationships, be the best lover we could be, and in the end we couldn't save our relationships. Like the other posters said, all you can do is pick up the pieces, heal your heart, and move on. Also, don't stop believing that someone else will come along who truly will love you and be willing to stick through the good times and the bad!
adamt Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 We broke up 6 months ago and i'm trying my best to move on b ut she is still in my thoughts a lot even though we have only spoke once in that time. it comes and goes. all you can do is keep yourself as busy as possible so you have less time to think about the ex. Join a gym and take up new hobbies.catch up with old friends. Some days i am fine other days i feel down. try to take little steps to move on. and try not to be in contact or find out anything she is doing because it wil mess with your head. she didnt even give us the chance to sort things out before splitting up.
GrayClouds Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Has anyone ever been in a relationship that didn't work out for whatever reason, but still wanted to be with that person because you still cared about them? I'm going through this right now and it doesn't make any sense as to why I still want to work things out and be with him, yet I know it can't work out anymore. You would think if it didn't work out, I'd want to just move on, but for some reason I want to just because I care so much. He doesn't feel the same though, he wants to give up and doesn't care about me anymore, sucky situation. So give me your experiences and what you think It is understandable, you feeling suggest that you have the ablity to love deeply and that your feeling were sincere. Take pride in that. Though do let those feeling interfere with the reality of the situation. It is the type of feeling that keep people in bad and unhealthy relationship for a long time.
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