Iknowishouldnt Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 So here's the deal. A man from my past. The first man I ever slept with is back in the picture. We are both in committed relationships, though neither of us are married. There has been no action on either side to move forward with any kind of relationship, but we both want to. The sexual tension between us is palpable. I'm surprised our significant others can't tell. I think about him all the time. I think I must have him up on some pedestal because every man I've been with I've compared to him. I know I shouldn't but I really really want to. I just want to know what others have to say. I need a sounding board. I can't tell this to any family or friends because they would never understand. I don't plan to do anything, but a girl can daydream right? (Please nothing mean or judgmental...I'm just reaching out here)
NoneoftheAbove Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 There is nothing to daydream about quit while you are ahead or else ahh you get the picture.
fooled once Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 So here's the deal. A man from my past. The first man I ever slept with is back in the picture. We are both in committed relationships, though neither of us are married. There has been no action on either side to move forward with any kind of relationship, but we both want to. The sexual tension between us is palpable. I'm surprised our significant others can't tell. I think about him all the time. I think I must have him up on some pedestal because every man I've been with I've compared to him. I know I shouldn't but I really really want to. I just want to know what others have to say. I need a sounding board. I can't tell this to any family or friends because they would never understand. I don't plan to do anything, but a girl can daydream right? (Please nothing mean or judgmental...I'm just reaching out here) IMHO - you need to step away from this guy. If you want to be with you, exit the relationship you are in. Do not become a cheater.
her_halo_slipped Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 So here's the deal. A man from my past. The first man I ever slept with is back in the picture. We are both in committed relationships, though neither of us are married. There has been no action on either side to move forward with any kind of relationship, but we both want to. How do you know you both want to? Have you discussed it? If so why aren't you moving forward? Sexual attraction is a very powerful feeling. Sometimes it make us heady and giddy and at other times down right confused. Sometimes the best action is no action. Why not just wait for a bit and let the tempest of raw and primal feeling settle and then see what comes? Maybe by not movinf forward your subconscious knows this is a good course of action.
jennie-jennie Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 The MM I am in a relationship with is a man from my past. This relationship has been the most wonderful and fulfilling relationship of my life, but also very painful since I have to share him with his wife. I don't regret a day, but from now on I am going to run the other way if I feel myself being attracted once again to a MM.
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