Sysyphus28 Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 Thanksgiving last year was terrible. I was such a mess! I missed my ex, hated her, loved her, was jealous of her, wanted to talk to her, wanted to ignore her, talked about her,dreamt about her........ I was tore the F*** up over her. I visited Loveshack three times a day. It MORE than helped getting feedback and sharing my stories. It was honestly some of the most amazing therapy I have ever recieved. I printed out threads and read them in the bathroom when I felt down. I gained strength from NC encouragement threads. I read suggested books about dating,sexuality and coping that were suggested on various threads. I can't tell you how MUCH better I feel. I have dated girls, and I have taken the steps to try and GO back to school!............. I have erased her from my life, and taken her power away for good. That's all you have to do to COPE.......take the other persons power over you away and get free. No one has the right to make you feel like you are less than. Life is long and it is not fair to waste time being emotionally traumatized by someone who no longer loves you, or likes to play games, or is just plain an A**hole. Reach out to me, I am happy to answer or help anyone.....everyone here helped me so much.
GrayClouds Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 I am very happy for you Sysyphus. As terrible and unwanted the experience is, it is amazing to see the quality of person that come out the other side. Enjoy yourself.
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