HeavenOrHell Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Have any of you said to your partner, or they have said to you it's too late to put things right but you've still managed to even though you thought it wasn't possible, even if you split up first?
Author HeavenOrHell Posted November 25, 2009 Author Posted November 25, 2009 Yes, too late to rebuild, to try again. You mean a 2nd chance?
USMCHokie Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Yes, too late to rebuild, to try again. I like to think that anything can happen in the future...and no one knows one way or the other how things will turn out... The future knows no past except for the present...(oh wow, that sounded kinda cool...I'm going to have to write that down...) So it's really the choices and actions you make in the moment that matter...
Odyssey Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 All you can do is put everything on the table (be totally honest) and tell him how you feel, what you want, about all the other issues that you both have during the relationship. If he knows this, then the ball's in his court. His move. That's all you could really do. Then move on and get on with your life - don't neglect yourself by waiting. I mean just don't put your life on hold for his sake. But I think the crux of your question really lies within your ex, not you (so stop wandering - it gets nowhere), because if he is unsettled, there will be a rocky road even if the relationship did pick up from where you both left off. Its never the same anyway. It's not like, you can start from a blank canvas again.
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