hottrotter Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 i found out that my ex of a few weeks is sending pictures to the guy who i got a little jealous over during our relationship and they talk all the time. it really just sucks to know this cause it makes the mind think if they had something going on during our relationship, and how she can get over our year together so quickly.. and if she dumped me for him.. idk... i just dont know how women do such things to men...
billy356 Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 I know how you feel, but you have to focus on you and not on her right now. You can't allow yourself to care what she is doing, feeling, thinking. You will just drive yourself nuts trust me, I am there right now. You dont know that she is over your year yet. Just because a person hooks up or even hangs out with another guy doesnt mean they arent feeling pain. That is just their way of coping (not a good way IMHO, but whatever) LET GO
adamt Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 Try to keep yourself busy as much as possible so you have little time to think about the ex and to stop your imagination running wild. tell your friends to stop feeding you info about her. It is all about you now and where you go from here without her in your life
flosskel Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 Thinking about stuff like this is only going to make the pain worse and last longer. As adamt said, try to keep yourself busy and don't concern yourself about what she's doing. You need to put yourself first.
adamt Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 take care of yourself. I can highly recommend joining a gym and focus on a fitness programme to get you in shape and rebuild your confidence. it also gets you out of the house feeling sad about the ex.
GrayClouds Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 take care of yourself. I can highly recommend joining a gym and focus on a fitness programme to get you in shape and rebuild your confidence. it also gets you out of the house feeling sad about the ex. adamt is right, for more help read: The No Contact Guide So you want a second chance?
Back2dabasics Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 i feel you completely. i had similar situation like yours. but let her do what she wants. just do you. keep moving forward and ignore her.
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