Skelator Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 what is wrong here.. So, me and my gf have been dating for almost 2 yrs..we have had our ups and downs. we are currently on a break because of this problem.. she has guy friends..im okay with that BUT...is it okay that a guy who recently broke up with his gf is now talking to my chick.. Problem...she claims they used to be good friends in school.. now this guy is coming over to her house to watch sunny in philly seasons.. i explain that i dont think thats good to be doing while in a relationship. it would be different if it was a group..but they solo mish when im busy...:/ the reason i dont llike this is because she was having problewms with her bf of 3yrs when i met her.. we were hangin out watchin movies like they are now...What guy comes over at 1am to finish season 3 of a show... i ask her what shes up to and she says i have absolutely nothing to worry about... ive asked multiple times in the past month or so... what the **** is going on... ???
VeveCakes Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 mmm she may not be but maybe you could ask her to withold spending time with him alone, like to a time when you are there too? If she isn't willing to take your feelings into consideration that could be a problem. Maybe she likes the attention?
seibert253 Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Maybe, maybe not. If she's not, she will be soon if you don't act now. See my post in your other thread. Act upon this now.
jnj express Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 If you are in a committed relationship she does not see other guys alone, no mater how much she wants to trivialize it, it is tabboo. You can't keep her from doing anything, you can only control what you do---so therefore you tell her she goes NC with this guy, and if she does cross that line in the sand, then you are gone---Do it calmly, and coolly, and walk away---Do not argue with her about it. It is what you will do, whether she likes it or not. You will have your answer very quickly as to her commitment to your relationship.
Davey McG Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 I had a read of your other post. She did it with you and now she's doing it to you. What goes around comes around. Sorry to say it, but what did you expect? End it with her and in a couple of years you'll hear she's done the same thing with this new chump.
ned kelly Posted November 26, 2009 Posted November 26, 2009 Don't jump to conclusions yet. I don't know how strong your relationship is so I can't assume. What she is doing is inappropriate at the very least. Find out more. If something did happen between them, time to move on.
Legend Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 If you're on a "break" she's cheating on you. Period.
Enema Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 In answer to your question: Yes, imo, she's cheating or will shortly.
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