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Hi everyone, i have a question i hope you fine people can help answering!

 

I have been broken up with my ex for around 1 year now, first 6 month i did the usual begging and pleading the text message terror. After 6 months i got fed up and just went into strict NC because i felt i was just giving my self respect away, considering i treated her like a princes and was incredible understanding towards her.

 

So, i removed her from my Facebook,MSN and she knows this, and after 6 months i see some odd and sad love songs posted on a friends wall. All the songs are about breakups and how the person is regretting breaking up and such, and how she misses her love.

 

Now this is weird, because my friend is a happy and married women and my ex knows i check her profile sometimes and i believe she is just playing games with me by making her friend post these videos that she know i will see. Before this a few months ago we had a conversation because of something relating to a common friend who needed help. She tells me at the end of the conversation AFTER i told her, i don't really see you and me together anymore "If only you had given me time, we could still be together and i could perhaps i could see some positive things in you"..

 

So is she playing games with me, it sounds allot like that to me, and as much as i have read on the forum, allot of girls just check if the guy is still around and then go into hiding again and never to be seen again for months.

 

So now that i am not calling or texting and not really give a damn, she is now suddenly posting love videos on her friends wall, i honestly don't want to fall into a trap where i am just baited. She never called me in the past 1 year, so this feels like a trap and i feel the videos are the bait.

 

Any advice how to read into this ?

 

Thanks for reading guys and girls and for helping me out :)

 

BN

DenverBachelor Established Member

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Any advice how to read into this ?

 

Thanks for reading guys and girls and for helping me out :)

 

BN

 

Woah woah WOAH little horse. First of all:

 

1) If you're REALLY NC, why are you checking out her friend's wall? Are you snooping? Come on man, that's not moving on. What's the deal there?

 

2) You don't know if it's about you. It could be about her most recent ex, a rebound -- hell, maybe she's posting videos for someone else. Maybe she likes the videos.

 

3) You're reading too much into it.

 

4) Moooooove ON!

fofiffs Established Member

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I totally agree with DenverBachelor. Your reading into it too much. Sometimes the mind plays tricks on us. If your ex hasn't contacted you in that long I doubt she's trying to reach out to you. If she was she'd be calling you, emailing you, or something like that. Just because she's posting sad music on your friends page doesn't really mean anything.

 

The best advice I could give you is to STOP checking your friends page and move on. You'll find love again..

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Hope is a VERY dangerous thing. Deep inside you HOPE she is playing games with you because it means that she still cares. You search for any type of "breadcrumbs" she may throw your way. The fact of the matter is that if she wanted to play games with you or was thinking about being back with you she would play a lot bigger games than this. I think you are reading too much into it and it will EAT AWAY at you if you continue to think about it.

 

I know it sucks but you HAVE TO move on. When you decide to do that she can play EVERY GAME in the world and it won't mean a thing to you. YOU decide when this game is over, NOT HER.

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WOW, you guys are so bloddy right...i just realized that i am just fooling myself. Yeah i should prolly just remove her friend from my list as well.

 

You guys hit the nail, i am just hoping she is playing games with me, and if she really wanted to get back she would play a bigger game then this wishfull thinking. Got my other comfirmation today about that she is not doing anything, no calls on my birthday from her or txt or email.

 

Anyways, thanks guys for putting my head straight...its nice to be reminded about reality.

 

I wish you all a wonderfull day

 

BN

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