Thebob Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 man I am gettin better over this break up and crap and not as emotional, but I get this feeling that I won't ever date anyone as beautiful, rich, blonde, blue eyes ever again...... I really do hope i'm wrong.... I feel like I outdid myself too soon in my life!!!! I hope this is not the case haha... Thebob
USMCHokie Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 I get this feeling that I won't ever date anyone as beautiful, rich, blonde, blue eyes ever again...... Well that's better than the feeling that I won't ever date anyone again...
Author Thebob Posted November 25, 2009 Author Posted November 25, 2009 I was at that stage a little bit, but I know that I'm just being stupid when I say it cause I am actually a good lookin guy with a good personality. It might take awhile cause I'm not the best talkin to girls, but eventually somewhere will want to care of me and I take care of them. Thebob
LostInLA Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Glad you are feeling better and don't worry about comparing your next romantic partner with your ex! That's not fair to them and you know what, most likely you'll find better anyways.
McGrupp Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 i felt the same way and still do kind of. my girl was a model and had a great head on her shoulders. whatever...it s hard for not to compare other girls to her...but tonight i went to a concert and saw a lot of pretty women. so i think its passing. maybe...
Boundary Problem Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 i felt the same way and still do kind of. my girl was a model and had a great head on her shoulders. whatever...it s hard for not to compare other girls to her...but tonight i went to a concert and saw a lot of pretty women. so i think its passing. maybe... Glad you are feeling better. It has been a tough week for you.
nobmagnet Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 funnyyou should say that. I know if I date again I will only compare them with my ex's faults! anybody will be simply stunning next to him!! hahahah Porky, moon faced, moobs and a devious little twat to boot. Yep i dont think it will be difficult!
AliveAndKicking Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 You WILL love again! Not today. Not next week. But you will love again. More important, perhaps, is the fact that you will be loved again. It certainly feels, while in the throes of pain, that the world has ended and you are permanently damaged. It is simply not true! The feeling, while very real, is just that: a feeling. The fact of the matter is far different than the feeling. I know that feeling well. I'm middle-aged and my last relationship was the deepest connection I've ever shared with another human being. I felt, and sometimes still feel, in fact, that it's over for me and it's all downhill from here on out. I know deep in my heart, though, that this is not the case. I will most certainly love again and with that I believe that I will be loved in return. Take time. Be patient. Slow down. Move slowly through this time of pain and healing. You can fight it but it ain't going away. Roll with it. Trust that you will move through the pain and will, in time, emerge renewed. Take time. Be patient. Trust. You will love again and you will be loved. Again.
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