tigressA Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 I've been following the thread and I don't remember if I posted earlier in it or not (probably not) but I just wanted to say congratulations and that I'm glad it's working out for you. Enjoy the ride
Author shadowplay Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 I've been following the thread and I don't remember if I posted earlier in it or not (probably not) but I just wanted to say congratulations and that I'm glad it's working out for you. Enjoy the ride Thanks!! I've been following your mult-dating threads as well and I'm also very excited for you.
tigressA Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 Thanks!! I've been following your mult-dating threads as well and I'm also very excited for you. Haha, thanks! Actually if it hadn't been for you posting that question about OKCupid it wouldn't be happening for me at all!
Author shadowplay Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 Haha, thanks! Actually if it hadn't been for you posting that question about OKCupid it wouldn't be happening for me at all! lol! Glad I helped! LS is great. Actually, if I hadn't started this thread and talked to people on here I would have never emailed this guy.
Ariadne Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 visit galleries skiing and snowboarding explore the surrounding neighborhoods the woods around his hometown Boston and NY One of my frustrations has always been... The things I value about... I'm now wondering if... I was thinking to myself that... Also I usually just fall... I thought to myself... I was just remembering... In retrospect.... I realize now... Wow. Is like this guy comes with a brochure or something. And that's a lot of realizations Shadow.
Author shadowplay Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 I swear to god I must have jinxed myself with all that happy talk, or maybe I'm being paranoid and losing my mind. But we just spoke on im and I noticed a detectable difference in his demeanor. This is the first time we've spoken since I got back home today. He seemed a lot more cool and distant. It was weird. I found myself wondering did I do or say something that offended him when we were last together? Did his friends/roommates say something negative about me? Did he somehow or another find this thread and get totally freaked out? I hope it's nothing, because the moment I noticed it I realized I would get so hurt if I continued to invest and he suddenly pulled back. I also realized that if any inconsistency creeps into his behavior then I'm completely out. I just can't ever do that again. I hope this is just paranoia left over from dealing with my freakishly inconsistent and emotionally distant ex. At least it's good to know that if he ever pulls that on me, I'll drop him like a hat. I will not tolerate that bull**** from anyone ever again.
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