mark982 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 i hope this is the right place to but this,if not i'm sorry. had a surprise 50th bd party for my wife sat night, her friend and i have been working this out since mid oct. party went great, monday i text her friend to thank her for making it such a great party. wife found out i text her and FLEW off the handle about texting her friends,acussed me of all kinds of indecent crap. i even showed her the text,i have nothing to hide, i can't figure out what her problem is. this is the ONLY time i've text is lady.
GorillaTheater Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Was this totally out of the blue, or has your wife gotten irrational about stuff like this before? Did she back down and apologize after you showed her what you texted (is that a word?) to her friend?
Lauriebell82 Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Sounds like my mom! Has she displayed this behavior before? Is there a specific reason why she is feeling this way at this point in time? I suggest you ask her why this upset her so much.
Author mark982 Posted November 25, 2009 Author Posted November 25, 2009 my wifes the very jealous type, she's still upset,not as pissed though. i've given her no reason to be jealous. her standard answer is "i don't play well". but damn, we bust your rear ends for a nice party for her and this.
Author mark982 Posted November 25, 2009 Author Posted November 25, 2009 should add that she has not backed down or apoligised, it's not her nature to do that.
CeeL Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 I'd guess she's not too comfortable with turning 50 just yet -- to say the least! Well, you've cleared the air on the text, and you've got nothing to apologize for, so best let it blow over. If she decides to apologize someday, it'll be a nice surprise. You probably well know that you have to pick your battles carefully!
kampfy chair Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I never could understand why this sort of thing is considered acceptable behavior in relationships. Being the "jealous type" gives you absolutely no excuse to behave that way toward a loved one. If she has jealousy problems, she should go to counseling and learn to control herself. Spouses aren't possessions, and under no circumstances should she be treating you like one, especially if this is a pattern of behavior for her.
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