frognice Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 (edited) why do people care about those that hurt them badly? Edited November 24, 2009 by frognice
Odyssey Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 You might not see this now, but she wasn't worth all the trouble you went through (in a way, i think you've over-committed yourself) to reconciled the relationship, when she was only half-heartedly committed in the first place. Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. But don't put up with people who are reckless with yours. My advice, is take heed from the second part and put into perspective as a lesson learned. Move on and then find someone who trust & respect you on the same level. Will you get over this? It won't be easy, but in time, you will. The key discipline is to take your focus off her, and put it into yourself.
Odyssey Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 oh... i didnt realised you'd just edited your post. I thought you'd wanted some advice. Nevermind... just ignore my post. why do people care about those that hurt them badly?Because in a way, we're addicted to them.
Author frognice Posted November 24, 2009 Author Posted November 24, 2009 You might not see this now, but she wasn't worth all the trouble you went through (in a way, i think you've over-committed yourself) to reconciled the relationship, when she was only half-heartedly committed in the first place. Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. But don't put up with people who are reckless with yours. My advice, is take heed from the second part and put into perspective as a lesson learned. Move on and then find someone who trust & respect you on the same level. Will you get over this? It won't be easy, but in time, you will. The key discipline is to take your focus off her, and put it into yourself. Thank you. Edited it coz I didnt like what I saw after I wrote it all down. Thank you for taking the time to reply. Now I got to pull myself together.
GrayClouds Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Thank you. Edited it coz I didnt like what I saw after I wrote it all down. Thank you for taking the time to reply. Now I got to pull myself together. Be kind to yourself, it takes time.
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