acey86 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Hi, im currently in a short term relationship (almost 2 months) that i feel is never going to eventuate to anything, the guy in unmotivated, jobless and wants to do nothing but drink and play video games. I dont find myself attracted to him physically or mentally and need to end things before they go too far, my predicament is that this particular guy happens to live with a family member at who's house i spend a lot of time. It is currently a semi-long distance relationship where we only see each other weekends, however i wont be around this coming weekend to do it in person, but i cant keep dodging phone calls and dont want to 'pretend' everythings ok until the next time im able to see him to do it in person. My other problem is that i have things at his place, which i need to get back, but with him always there it may be uncomfortable to go and gather my things. Help me, i dont know what to do?!?!?!
scorpio4 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 seems like you dont have much else choice but to just go round there and tell him you just cant see things working out, that youre two different people and youre sorry it wasnt to be. That way you can pick your stuff up and break it off in a quick and easy process....this guy does sound like a bit of a loser to be honest, not much going for him considering the thought he is a jobless video game player!! good luck....
TaraMaiden Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 If the only thing making you hesitate is the fact that he lives with a family member, it's a poor reason, in comparison to your long-term contentment - and his, for that matter. if he doesn't pay rent or contribute anything, it could be the catalyst needed to stir him into action. or leaving.... I'd let him know as soon as possible. That way, you can both get on with your lives - as soon as possible....
Author acey86 Posted November 24, 2009 Author Posted November 24, 2009 seems like you dont have much else choice but to just go round there and tell him you just cant see things working out, that youre two different people and youre sorry it wasnt to be. That way you can pick your stuff up and break it off in a quick and easy process....this guy does sound like a bit of a loser to be honest, not much going for him considering the thought he is a jobless video game player!! good luck.... id love to just go around and tell him and get my stuff, but the fact is he doesnt live just 5 minutes away, and i wont be seeing him for almost 2 weeks, i dont WANT to not do it in person, but i dont want to wait 2 weeks and string him along during that time either....
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