CBIIS1 Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 (edited) Its been four months since she walked out of a 22 year marriage. She no longer loved me. I smell boredom, middle life crisis, menopause etc. She is 47. I got a girlfriend, 11 years younger, prettier, lots of money, about a month after the break. Need less to say it isn't the same but oh well. I'm smiling and I'm taking it generally really well compared to the first month. I dread picking up the phone and hearing the ex's voice, such hostility. She's a jealous woman. She has recently told my son that she'd like to say hello to my girlfriend because it looks like the GF is going to be around for a while. She was very surprised to see the girlfriend's car in my driveway the other day when she brought my son home at 7:00 am for school. She asked him "who's car is that?" and "why is she here so early?", dah! Does she think I'm using this girl who is by the way "fatter than her" to get her jealous. Would she not know that sometimes the GF sleeps over with me in the matrimonial home in the ex's sleigh bed? I got dumped but I wasn't the loser in this fiasco. Your analysis please. My wife can barely look at the GF when she picks up the kids at school (the GF works there and her kids go there too, the GF is a 35 yr old widow) and now she wants to say hello? Edited November 23, 2009 by CBIIS1
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