countingstarsagain Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 I've decided today that I want to have no contact with my recent ex. Everytime I speak with him, I end up regretting it and being more hurt. We were together for a very long time, then he started dating someone two weeks after the split. I was forced to break up with him because he was starting to neglect me. I gave him all of his things back, however, some of my things are still at his apartment. He won't allow me to come and get my things and won't drop them off at my place either. I've told him times when I won't be home and asked him to drop them off then but he wouldn't. Now that he's home at his parent's for Thanksgiving Break and away from his new girlfriend, he is contacting me to come and get my things that are at his parent's house (but not the items at his apartment). I'm going to maintain no contact as I've decided that the items that I want back aren't worth the pain of having to see/speak with him.What's his deal? I feel like he's using my things to manipulate me into coming around him when it's convienent for him. Is this something someone would do?? Are there any other suggestions for getting my things back pain-free?
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