Why am i so happy i screwed up with every girl i had a chance with?

[Brady_to_Moss]

In the past 2 years i could have had 3 potential long term relationships with these girls...but of course i screwed them up

 

Girl one..i liked..she found out and asked me to come to her dorm room during the summer and such..well i was a giant pussy and just didn't talk to her

 

Girl 2 was her best friend...we were a thing for like a week..i wanted a relationship she wanted to wait a few months..so i stopped talking to her...yay!

 

Girl 3 i went on a date with..never talked to her again

 

 

But you know what, i am SO happy they didn't work out. I do not want to be tied down at 20. Screw sex at this point. I could care less. Does everything happen for a reason? Did i screw up because that was in the cards for me? Why am i happy i never talk to these girls or any for that matter?