9Lives Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 It has been on my mind since me and my ex broke up for good. How did it come to this? Is this stage called denial? Im not fighting the direction it is going in. Im just sad we are here. last night I went to a event looking fabulous and saw my ex. I knew he would be there but he didnt know I would. He was very surprised to see me. We didnt speak. We ignored each other. he had a date and so did i. It is just so strange to me how it all goes down the drain. It's painful for me. I never thought we would be here. I didnt want to break up in the first place but he wanted to.(4 yrs together) I know we are moving on with our lives. He said he did not want a relationship but there he was hugged up with another woman. I think he did that on purpose to try to hurt me. It was uncalled for I think. I just remained classy, confident, and enjoyed the evening. Today...i feel terrible. I still cant believe it
name witheld Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 Well if he is doing stuff for your benefit then you have to feel sorry for him! Poor guy thinks that you are so weak and lonely that you will crumble with his foolish games, but you have shown him that you are strong. So well done. I would say defo a kneejerk reaction to seeing you with someone else, but you have risen above it and done well. Keep up the good work and you will feel better!
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