lovebubble Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 My husband of almost 2 years has completely changed. He no longer shows any interest in our marriage or any concern.. and any little fight is an excuse to leave the house and spend nights with his '' friends ''. He's never been a party or '' hang out '' person, and all of a sudden.. he dosen't want to be home and would rather be out as if he's single. It's another night of him gone.. it's midnight, and he won't answer any of my calls or texts.. I feel like I'm going crazy. I just would love to hear that he's alright.. but, I'm not even worthy of that satisfaction to help me sleep. Our recent argument is because he told me he was going to the store to get a surprise for me.. and he came home with no surprise for me at all, but some '' legal '' marijuana.. that him and his friends had just smoked the night before.. and I blew up. How do I stay sane while he's out, not giving a rats behind about our marriage, and I'm stuck in the house beating myself up about what I could have done to make him stay home?? and calling him repeatedly.. Help anyone?
floods88 Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 im sorry about what your going through. i know how it feels when everytime theres a small argument, they run away. i dont know what the best advice is for you, but maybe you should tell him that his behaviour is really hurting you and that you would like to talk about it. it seems as though he might be pushing you to tell him to leave? i dont know, but whatever happens, fuelling the fire by arguing with him even more wont help. maybe a calm approach will help in this situation. trying to get him to open up and tell you why he is acting this way. it sounds as though he is having a crisis.
Author lovebubble Posted November 22, 2009 Author Posted November 22, 2009 thanks so much.. anytime i show emotion or tell him how i feel he becomes annoyed and disinterested. we just went 12 days without speaking to eachother, made up yesterday, and now this today again.. over a small issue.. and he's getting deployed for a year on jan 2nd. it hurts me so much.
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