dashing daisy Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 Is that bad? Does it mean I'm not moving on well? I am not doing it because I'm not sure if it's helpful or not, but I kind of want to. Is it normal, is it okay, does it help...or does it hurt?
floods88 Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 just let it out... say whatever you want to say about him... once you do it, you might find you get bored of talking about him after a while there are always people here that will listen. if you deny yourself the simple pleasure of talking therapy, it'll eat you up inside.
Thebob Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 Do it, it helps. As long as you don't talk to him personally to him but to others you'll get over him. Cause he won't know that your talking about him to others, and he'll feel that your moving on easily cause your not talking to him. Let it all out and let your friends become sick of you and threaten you to kick your butt if you say one more word about him. That is what my friends did with my ex-girlfriend and it worked to an extent. They were like, you need to stop talking about her and move on. She wasn't even that hot and you can do so much better. Move on she isn't worth your time and she is a slut. And honestly it helped, finally i realized that I do need to move on and it helped telling them what was on my chest. Thebob
nobmagnet Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 I agree completely. Talk till your bored but not to him. You will eventually fine some inner peace. Rant, blub scream just not to him. There are smashing people on here that really want to help you. x
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