Chrome Barracuda Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 I agree. If she would just tell me no instead of "I dont know" then I would be better off. She gets my hopes up and then shoots me back down. I texted her earlier to ask if she would call me so I could talk to my son. She wont reply to me now so I must have made her mad but I never said anything to her to make her mad. What I posted on here is exactly what I told her to the T. I was not an A-hole about it I dont believe. Or was I. I really hope this doesn't make her mad at me and decide not to sign the parenting agreement this coming monday...... I sincerely hope you have a good lawyer, because it looks like she is not being in control of the situation. she cant deal with it. Your not being a doormat or a back up plan, it's becoming clear you arent going to tolerate it anymore. So she's using your child as a pawn. Link to post Share on other sites
tornandmarried Posted August 20, 2010 Share Posted August 20, 2010 whoa...never have sex with again! last thing u need is to end up getting her pregnant again and youll have double trouble....shes sending alot of mixed signals....ever read "great expectations?" dont fall for it, she knows how your hurting and proably wants to keep you feeling that way cuz it makes her feel good about herself...its also important to refrain from argueing with her...no matter how much she makes your blood boil keep your emotions and actions in check, dont wanna end up like mel gibson...sorry about your situation but u do have a long bumpy road ahead of you...i been through hell with my daughters mother, shes 12 now and its getting better all the time...things will smooth out when your son is old enough to understand whats going on, shell be too embaressed to act a fool Link to post Share on other sites
tornandmarried Posted August 20, 2010 Share Posted August 20, 2010 Why do I keep having dream's about my wife? Sometimes they are good dream's but most of the time they are bad one's. im in a messy marriage situation myself and i dream about her EVERY SINGLE NIGHT....your dreams reflect whats going on in your life, its in your dreams cuz its always on your mind, carried over into sleep...its part of your daily routine.....you do have some controll over this, its hard but try not to look back and find something else to think about, dont have a hobby? get one, try painting or writing poety, channel all the energy into something constructive....try meditation even, focus intensly on one thought...a flower anything, when your wife pops up, force it away and stick to the flower Link to post Share on other sites
Author liftedcj7on44s Posted August 30, 2010 Author Share Posted August 30, 2010 Well I had the most wonderful weekend that I have had in a year, I finally got my son this weekend. No arguing, no telling me where I could not take him etc etc. That's right she signed the papers. Me and my son had a wonderful weekend. I get him every other weekend. Now I am not sure what she is trying to do herself. She is being super duper friendly to me. Today I called on my lunch break to talk to my son with no intention of talking to her. She say's she want's to get back together now. I told her that if she want's to get back together then she is going to have to prove it to me. She probably thinks she is setting me up again but what she does not realize is that I have learned to not expect anything. What I mean is I dont expect her to come back therfore im not getting my hopes up just to be hurt again. I am past that stage. I will continue being nice to her for my sons sake. If she wants me back then she better start praying Link to post Share on other sites
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