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actualy read several times............... yep

 

 

 

twat xxx love nob xx

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Her- It would be easy to come home, but your family would never accept me.

Me - I don't care about my family, they'll get over it, I care about us.

Her- But I've already spent so much on the lawyer really should go through with it.

Me- :confused::confused::confused:

 

TOJAZ

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Spent too much on the lawyer????? Did she actually say that with a straight face? As in was she really not joking?

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Was on the phone, but yeah, she said it with all seriousness.:(:( That was shortly before.... "I wish we could work this out, but I don't like talking about feelings" WTF!

TOJAZ

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Your lady takes the cake Tojaz!!! I don't know how you keep any sense of calm when she speaks like this to you.

 

Although - my husband sent me a text last week saying 'my being in contact with 'other woman' is not going to affect my relationship with you'

 

Oh no, of course it wont!!!!!! Has he gone crazy???

 

And I am getting the 'miss you' messages. I don't respond as I have no response - really, nothing. Gives me the tears, the regret etc etc. But does nothing. No action....just crazy words.

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Your lady takes the cake Tojaz!!! I don't know how you keep any sense of calm when she speaks like this to you.

 

Although - my husband sent me a text last week saying 'my being in contact with 'other woman' is not going to affect my relationship with you'

 

Yeah, sometimes I wonder why I miss her so much. :o:o Wasn't always like that. (sigh) Guess thats why i spend so much time here.

 

Although it sounds like you have a real piece of work yourself Jane, glad to see your staying strong.

TOJAZ

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Got another one,

 

When I asked my wife what gave her the right to sleep with someone else, she said she was "in love and that actually I'm quite proud that it took her 6 weeks until she did the deed."

 

Boy they say the stupidest stuff in la la land.

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yep

 

me..." how long has this been going on?"

 

Lowly...." couple of months but I have known her for agaes"

 

Eh??? oh that makes it so much easier for me thank you.. WTF????

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Not from the ex, but from our teenage son:

 

Son: Mom, I don't know why you are so upset....dad's girlfriend has been part of the family for years.

 

Umm, yeah, she's your soon-to-be step-uncle's first ex-wife...HELLO?? :eek:

 

On another note, same topic:

 

STBXH: At least I am replacing you with somebody our son knows, anyone you meet will always be a stranger. (I'm sorry, was that comment supposed to be a "chasity belt"?) :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: (ummm, NO!)

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Her- It would be easy to come home, but your family would never accept me.

Me - I don't care about my family, they'll get over it, I care about us.

Her- But I've already spent so much on the lawyer really should go through with it.

Me- :confused::confused::confused:

 

TOJAZ

 

Just proof positive that it wasn't what she wanted if you ask me!

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Got another one,

 

When I asked my wife what gave her the right to sleep with someone else, she said she was "in love and that actually I'm quite proud that it took her 6 weeks until she did the deed."

 

Boy they say the stupidest stuff in la la land.

 

That's a tough one FP, my ex was back in the saddle after six weeks with his "soul-mate"....2 weeks after she kicked her husband out of the house. Can totally relate to that stupidity.....

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Yep Trippi that was a doozy. The only saving grace I have is that she realizes herelf how hurtful the things were. She was an emotional freight train back then (still is just in a different way) and emotions have a way of making people say the stupidest things.

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Yep Trippi that was a doozy. The only saving grace I have is that she realizes herelf how hurtful the things were. She was an emotional freight train back then (still is just in a different way) and emotions have a way of making people say the stupidest things.

 

It doesn't get much better FP, heading back home early (tomorrow) to drop son off at his father's home...even though I don't agree with it...I'm spent..had enough and am done fighting the fight.

 

I've been beat up, put down and made out to the evil person tonight, snapped at my father (something we haven't done since I was 16) for two days and he told my son the truth tonight about his father's issues. Not where I wanted to be tonight....but the fact is, things are what they are...I am who I am and no better than what the evilness wants for me. I am where I am, for materialistic reasons acccording to the ex, because I wanted a secure future...something I had to give myself because I was selfish for doing so.

 

All I can say is, the guilt over them leaving never ends....it lives within you, the kids..and life in general.

 

È così la vita

  • 1 month later...
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:(:confused::eek::p:lmao:

 

lowly " i am so miserable right now can I have a hug?"

 

Nobby " errr no"

 

 

( Karma kicked in and his GF has dumped him!)

 

 

muhahahahahahaha

 

Nobby xx

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After having reconciled with my serial cheating H several times..I finally looked into divorce. Found out that I was not 50% owner of the house and that I would leave with nothing.

 

Told him I wanted to once again work on the marriage and that one condition was that he make my 50% of this asset rock solid legally.

 

The stupidest thing he has ever said?

 

Yes.

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ohhhhhhhh thats classic!

 

hahahahahahahahahahahah you flippin win my dear!!

 

 

hee hee

 

nobby xx

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My Ex husband had an affair.. When I found out about after talking to his girlfriedn. I asked him Why? He said "because he was lonely, because I was working all the time.".. I said WTF really? I worked two jobs, 8-5 mon- friday at one and the other one I waitressed from 5:30pm until around mid night and then one the weekends. to pay the mortagage and put a roof over our head... But yet he complained about the bills and wanted a new car... So I busted my A$$ and he repaid me by finding a girlfriend... If he had so much flipping free time on his hands why didnt he get anextra job, and help?

 

THANK GOD HE IS NOT MY PROBLEM ANYMORE!!!

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H and I are still together but things keep going down hill. The last time I left he agreed to MC. When I brought up MC last week he compared it to me not wanting to get a flu shot. Yah because me choosing to not get a flue shot is anything compared to getting divorced... At least I can laugh at his dumb a$$!

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When H said he would quit drinking (7 months ago...has yet to happen), he said, "beer is a stress reliever. so is sex. If I'm going to quit drinking, I will need sex more. so you will have to drop your pants wherever and whenever I want".

 

I actually laughed out loud at this one. I guess he sees me as one of the whores he's trying to bag...

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Got this one from her yesterday.

 

"I know marriage is 50/50 and I know I can be difficult but honestly I don't really see where I went wrong in the marriage. I was just reacting to you."

 

Umm or perhaps I was reacting to you. Oh yeah and there is that little something called adultery.

 

I wanted to point out a few to her but what would it matter? She would just spin it around. So I did the only thing I know how to do in my most sincere tone "I agree. Gotta go now". It's so nice not to worry about being right or defensive. It really doesn't matter. If she wants a recon I won't be there unless she see's this stuff.

 

Gotta laugh sometimes :lmao:

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Hold out FP...twelve days now and counting right? Reacting....yeah...sounds sort of like the BS I heard...I'm sorry BUT....you did this that MADE me REACT like this....etc, etc.

 

Yeah, sounds like I am for divorce but I'm not.....if two people only have communcation issues...those can be overcome, but not for anyone who cheats and validates it because of "their needs".... well, yeah....that's a communication issue as well but married couples should be able to discuss that. Other than that, it is selfishness, pure and simple.

  • 2 weeks later...
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New one - left on answering machine at work:

 

Ex: I'm not sure why my son is so angry with me, all I did was leave his mother....yeah, sorry about that...which it could have been different. BTW - can you take care of the taxes this year, I'm not sure how to make up the back support I owe you, but may filing together will get you something back that will help out with what I owe....wtf? :mad:

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how about this condtradictory little ditty:

 

W: I want someone who always puts me and my well being/safety before theirs, because that's what I do. (she's a self admitting giver, often at her own expense, and I feel she gets resentful when other people don't reciprocate)

 

and later on, when I asked her why she didn't seem to care about anything between us anymore

 

W:I am more concerned with my survivial, health, and well being at this point. I can't focus on your life any longer.

 

A-how the crap would two people give up everything for the other person, wouldn't they both go down in flames where no one recieves?

B- I like how the whole theme of selflessness has a clause in it that says I get to be selfish if I feel you aren't as big of a martyr as I am. Way to go unconditional love.

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ok so here's one for you....

My WAW calls me on her way to the OM house to chat. I'm busy putting anti-freeze in her daughter's car. I said let me call you back in five I'm helping someone out. She said nevermind its ok. So being the idiot that I was I called her back when I was done and asked why didnt you want me to call you back? And here's her answer: Because I dont play second fiddle to anyone. Needless to say I told her to @%$# off and hung up.

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ok so here's one for you....

My WAW calls me on her way to the OM house to chat. I'm busy putting anti-freeze in her daughter's car. I said let me call you back in five I'm helping someone out. She said nevermind its ok. So being the idiot that I was I called her back when I was done and asked why didnt you want me to call you back? And here's her answer: Because I dont play second fiddle to anyone. Needless to say I told her to @%$# off and hung up.

 

You should be on your knees Thanking Almighty God that your free of this woman!

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