FeelingLonely98 Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I would sometimes say when we discussed the D business – I would say how I was so disappointed that she never once tried to see if we could work it out. And that she never once told me there was anything wrong with the M. are you sure you want to do this? (the 18 yr old BF, etc.) Things like that, always in a nice calm dignified manner. She said I only say these things to make myself feel better and to “HURT” her. Huh? She’s talking about hurt?[/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]During our 4-day so-called attempt at reconciliation we went to MC twice. When the counselor asked her what % of love did she still feel or could she ever feel for me, the STBXW said happily “ZERO”!!! Wow, ok, then why are you here? It was revealed later this 4-day attempt was a sham to buy her time.[/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Now you are the H I always wanted. Now someone else will be happy with you. NICE. So why are you leaving?[/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]After the A was exposed … 47 yr old with 18 yr old BF, she told me “I believe that true love does not see ages”. Huh? True love?[/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I just want to alone and independent. That was on Day 1, d-day! Now she is going to be “alone” and “free” in her new apt. with her 20 yr old son and her little 18 yr old BF. “INDEPENDENCE”!!![/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I want to crawl into a hole and die. Like with TOJAZ, I must really be the worst alternative in the world – death or the M.[/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] I have 100s more.
trippi1432 Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 Got a new one!!! You were right, the grass isn't greener. Umm, yeah....could have told you that.
FeelingLonely98 Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 sorry - don't know why all the weird stuff on my previous post.
hopesndreams Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 I've been NC, on my end, for a while and a bit now, not counting days, and his latest email is trying to explain to me that not talking to each other will never help us get through what has happened. He goes on to say how he totally and utterly understands how I feel (as if!) and what I am thinking but doesn't think it's going to help him to not talk with me. (so selfish) His line at the end is..........You NEVER deserved any of this. If I could go back in time and change what happened...I would in a heartbeat. Please keep in touch.
Tom81 Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 My wife said she left me because I wasn't "there enough" for her and didn't spend much time with her. I was technically giving her too much space...she did have an emotional affair probably because I was giving her too much space. So after 3 weeks of NC, I get an email from her thanking me for all of the time and space I am giving her. So now she's thanking me for space...WTF
Tayla Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 My wife said she left me because I wasn't "there enough" for her and didn't spend much time with her. I was technically giving her too much space...she did have an emotional affair probably because I was giving her too much space. So after 3 weeks of NC, I get an email from her thanking me for all of the time and space I am giving her. So now she's thanking me for space...WTF OKay that one is a head scratcher. LOL! This is a quote topic of statements made and hope folks take it lightly. I sure enjoyed it at the beginning.
adiaz Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 From my STBXH that I am already OVER: "You can't see the best in me. She told me I was a great man and a great father" He knew her for 2 weeks. I have known him since 2002:lmao: From my STBXH after I refused to stay with him "I regret having met you. If I could go back to the day you came to my house, I would have told you to get the **** out of my house." He came to MY house.:laugh:and my favorite "I regret having kids with you"
CBIIS1 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Lets see if I remember the fine performance she put on: 1. "You made me hard" . This, from a girl I rescued from an incestuous family 26 years ago after they kicked her out for telling me the family secret. She went back to them ten years ago and put me second. She has issues. 2. "I hope we can still be friends and go to Boston Pizza for our son's birthday". Like f*** if I'm sitting across the table from her with a knife and fork again. I will eat her. 3. "This is my plea for help from you" . This was a line in her Dear John letter. I was touched, between my butt cheeks. 4. " My best friend told me I couldn't leave you while you were sick" . This one's my fave. First of all, she put me in the nut house, from all her lying, manipulating and controlling. Second, she hasn't been able to make a single decision in her life without first consulting her childhood friend who knows everything. Who was I married to? I'd like to know more about the psychology of women scarred by incest. She has always felt but has never been able to make out my feelings or point of view without checking in with her best friend. I think her childhood friend played a pivotal role in her past and is still controlling\advising her today in similar capacity.
trippi1432 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Another good one: Sent in an email recently concerning feelings for OW/GF and the love for his wife: "I never dreamed it would be this hard of a transition." Hmm, sorry nobody is making it easy for ya.
phineas Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 not as humerous as some. me: "where were you all day"" Her: "Grocery shopping" Me: "where are the groceries?" her: "right here" (shoes me a single plastic bag.) Me: "it took you all day to buy that? her: "I went to the super walmart in the next county" (a 30 min. drive) ----------------------------------------------------------------- Me: you promised to show me your cell phone bill to prove you were NC with OM. Her: I will. Me: when. her: I ordered a copy. me: why don't we just sign into it on the verizon website? her: I pay the bill with my phone. I can't do that. me: you cant manage your phone account online? her: no. That was when I pulled the plug. ------------------------------------------------------------ now every time she wants something like money or me to spend time at her apartment it's "for the kids". yeah, the 3 $7 boxes of girl scout cookies in your front seat..are they for the kids also? by the way, here's some money for gas because like your strugling.
nobmagnet Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 on discussing how to tell the children he was leaving he said he would not fund his daughters (6years old) beloved pony (first thing she does everyday before anything is go and hug him and give him a corrot) " yeah I will tell her at the same time as we tell them im leaving, saving you telling her" Hey he is all heart isnt he??????? So let me get this straight..........you are going to say "Daddy doesnt love mummy anymore and am going to live somewhere else. Now charlie, Mr Tickle is going too." utter utter utter stupid idiot. I told him to f*uck off i would work nights to keep that pony for her. Is it me??
NoIDidn't Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 I saw the meaning of the "WA" abbreviation as "walk away", but after reading these responses....I like my first thought better: wayward @$$. Good grief.
Cranialrupture Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Ok, I got a call to day from her saying, she was concerned because she had some dreams the past couple nights that I was dating and didn't want the kids to get attached and just get hurt. hmmmm A: I have not been dating. B: thx for your permission, as if I needed it. C: I gave that advice to you 2 months ago when you moved in with your so called non lesbian friend, (that you share the same bed with). So let me see, I need your permission to date and you are concerned of me hurting the kids by dating when you are living and sleeping with your girlfriend. /facepalm It really did make me laugh. All I could think of to say on the spot was "now you know where my concern came from". I know not real witty but it kind of caught me off guard so I couldn't think of anything real good off the top of my head. I should of said something along the lines 'the next time you become enlightened through your dreams, share them with the mirror'.
nobmagnet Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 Classic crainialrupture! this is from WAH mother. " yes he is on holiday with his g/f dont you think he deserves to be happy after 10years with you??" "Look its all your fault....when you were pregnant with Tom you wore you P.J's all morning." I worked till 3 weeks before birth and had to get up to take my older daughter to school!! and...............WTF?????? I know where he gets his venim from x
nobmagnet Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 update........ he is back from his "deserving" holibob with new g/f Hey how are you? awwww i have really missed you all. errrrrrrrrrrrrrr hello??????
hopesndreams Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 "I know I broke your heart but I broke mine too. I hope you never have to experience being in love with 2 people like I did."
nobmagnet Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 hopes and dreams...................i think your ex may have just won first prize!!! what a dounut xx ME ME ME ME ME
nobmagnet Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 this was least year......... i have 3 kids and it was summer holidays and i had spent 6 days while he was away tiling and grouting 67 sq meters of floor......... he walks in having been away on business " hmm....when are you putting the skirting on?" I say "eh??" he says " the floor looks **** without skirting boards" I say "eh?" "look its you f*cking job! what do you me expect to do? it looks ****. show me when it looks good" is it me?????????? by the way I have to sell my home I single handedely renovated because i cant buy him out.
nobmagnet Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 first post please and read on with cupa and a laugh in mind. enjoy and add! lifes a xxxxxxxxx then you love em xx
Ilovehimbut Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 This didn't happen to me but when my friend found out that her husband had been having a 2 year affair with a mutual friend of theirs she went up to him and said "It really sucks that I had to find out about "D" from someone else" To which he replied "It really sucks that you had to find out about "D" at all" After that he had the "balls" to say to her later - "All men have sex with other woman and you're just a "b***h" because you don't understand that it's just sex". He told his wife that she was the woman that he wanted to grow old with but he just needed to "get it out of his system" so if she could just let him have sex with other woman for about "five more years" than he would be ready to settle down (all this after 10 years of marriage). Thanks God she had the brains to leave him.
JaneDoe35 Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 A friend told me that she came home from work unexpectedly and found her husband naked in bed with her best friend. She was wild with anger and he told her to calm down. She yelled at him that it was impossible to calm down considering that she had just discovered her husband having sex with her best friend. His response - 'We were just talking and you have a dirty mind for suggesting that anything else was going on'.
LisaUk Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 this was least year......... i have 3 kids and it was summer holidays and i had spent 6 days while he was away tiling and grouting 67 sq meters of floor......... he walks in having been away on business " hmm....when are you putting the skirting on?" I say "eh??" he says " the floor looks **** without skirting boards" I say "eh?" "look its you f*cking job! what do you me expect to do? it looks ****. show me when it looks good" is it me?????????? by the way I have to sell my home I single handedely renovated because i cant buy him out. Hi Nob I can relate to this! I renovated properties as well. A few years back I was very unwell with a stomach illness (won't go into loads of detail but I was unwell with food poisoning like symptoms every day for 5 and a half years). So, I was stripping wood chip wall paper and I was in a lot of pain, my ex came in and said "well don't cry about it" No Nob it's not you. I'm sorry you have to sell your home, I lost my home too, I know how much that hurts. Hugs. I'm really enjoying this thread, I'll have to have a think and post some of the ones he said when he walked.
nobmagnet Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 RED FLAGS:eek: I noticed lowly was locked in his office on facebook all the time. RED FLAG I know nothing about it but it must be fun so I made an account and invited him. It looked pretty lame to me and boring so I kinda forgot about it for a couple of weeks. Anyhooo, some time later (after i remembered my password!) I went to look to see if I had a freind yet. Nothing...nada.ziltch. Billy no mates. I popped my head round the sacred office door and asked if he had got my request for being my freind as I am a billy. "i didnt get a request" lowly responded. "oh it probably me being dim i will try again!" I reply. RED FLAG:sick: Fast forward 1 week. Having remembered my password, I still find im a billy! again popping my head round lowlys office door...... "hey dont you wanna be my freind??" " I havent used facebook in ages...." lowly retorts Massive RED FLAG ( lier lier pants on fire):sick: Im bored with the whole topic so drop it. Here goes.............1 hour later he storms into the room im sitting in and shouts " I havent invited you as a freind because I know you will go balistic" I relpy "eh? what you on about" Lowly then vents " Look i have lots of women I talk to and you would have gone mad" " eh??? why would I??" BIG FLASHING RED FLAG!!!!:sick: " Look if your so f*cking obsessed with what I am up come and look!!!" Lowly is ranting now. "eh?? no I really am not bothered honey......why are you so cross?? I havent implied anything and I trust you. Why are you shouting at me?" " I just dont want you to think I am up to anything and I dont think you could take the fact I have "freinds " that are women and not get angry" HMMMMMMMMMm lowly did you just shoot yourself in the foot?? I mean I could give a sh*t at the time.......seed of doubt now. BIG RED BLUMMIN BLEEPING FLAG:sick::sick::sick::sick: god im dim:confused:
LisaUk Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 On the day he left in reference to having taking me round 4 different wedding reception venues, two churches, a church service, having the vicar to our house to book the wedding service and discussing all the plans with our parents and my bridesmaid "well, at least I didn't let you get to the stage of bying a wedding dress hey!" In response to me asking "why are you leaving?" "because I don't love you anymore, well I do but a lot less, maybe 25%" Huh?
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