jjbot Posted November 21, 2009 Share Posted November 21, 2009 I'm in an on and off relationship with this girl. I can truly say that I love her but some signs point to unstable. I find myself wondering if the "juice is worth the squeeze." We are in an "off" point in our relationship now. The good: We connect on a level beyond any other that I've experienced. We share similar values, I'm able to communicate freely with her, my family loves her (and vice versa), and I'm just in a state of euphoria when I'm with her. The bad: She just doesn't think very logically sometimes, requires and seeks the attention of several guys (always texting various guys), very flirty, and all in all just doesn't know what she wants right now. She is only 20 so I guess that may be pretty typical and what she does when we are going through an "off" period shouldn't concern me too much. But it still bothers me and I find myself debating what to do. I think I may be spoiling her a little too much (weekly $100 dinners, little presents now and then, etc.) while she keeps me as one of the "few" guys she sees now. I see other girls every now and then too, but just find my feelings and attraction going back to her. Any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
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