TheLoneSock Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I am reading lots of posts about womens hang ups with their bodies and would like to know what men really think Every single girl I know how certain issues with their bodies including me My friend is obsessed with her cellulite and my other friend is obsessed with her boobs, another her fat vagina and I am sooo worried about my stretch marks after having my son Now I have to say that every guy I have slept with has never had a problem with my stretchmarks but yet they make me feel sick. so guys, what do you think? would a girls imperfect body turn you off? There are a few things about a girls body that can turn me off. But over all I think as guys we are looking at/for the things that turn us on... not what is going to turn us off.
v g Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Being pretty naked is a pretty big deal to me, sorry. I've turned down sex before when the girl got naked and it wasn't pretty. Several times, with different partners actually. Pretty much what you would expect- ugly protruding vaginas, weird boobs, paunch and stretch marks, cellulite. It looks like I am an outlier though, according to this thread, so you should be fine. Wow. Do you think it might have been helpful, I dunno, to have kept from hurting those women in such a cold way, to have informed them ahead of time that you won't have sex with them unless they are pretty naked? Perhaps let them bow out gracefully, letting them know the rules of your cold-hearted game ahead of time? I don't have issue with the fact that you require women to be pretty naked. What is attractive to you is a requiment for you. That's fine. It's the way you go about obtaining it that's an issue for me. Is that the way you would want your daughter or sister or mother treated? I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Runway model type bodies don't do a thing for me. Imperfections can be sexy as hell. It's all about what you do with it anyway. Besides, as you get older, you realize that's why they invented dimmer switches.
thegreatmoose Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Being pretty naked is a pretty big deal to me, sorry. I've turned down sex before when the girl got naked and it wasn't pretty. Several times, with different partners actually. Pretty much what you would expect- ugly protruding vaginas, weird boobs, paunch and stretch marks, cellulite. It looks like I am an outlier though, according to this thread, so you should be fine. That is cruel.
Throne Of Lies Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 (edited) Wow. Do you think it might have been helpful, I dunno, to have kept from hurting those women in such a cold way, to have informed them ahead of time that you won't have sex with them unless they are pretty naked? Perhaps let them bow out gracefully, letting them know the rules of your cold-hearted game ahead of time? I don't have issue with the fact that you require women to be pretty naked. What is attractive to you is a requiment for you. That's fine. It's the way you go about obtaining it that's an issue for me. Is that the way you would want your daughter or sister or mother treated? I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Wow, let's judge shall we? You don't know me. Honestly? I have a heavy heavy trigger. Imagine if maybe one in three partners you had could get you off for a minute. I'm not demanding your sympathy, because I don't really care about you, I'm just trying to get you to understand. Plus, how do you propose I go about things? If I state my demands up front you and I both know I am going to get nowhere. The only way to do things under my constraints is the way that I do things. Do you think that came to possess the ability to turn down sex with girls by not having respect for women? Get a clue. Fact- I have much higher standards than most men, not out of ego or anything, just these imperfections make it impossible for me to orgasm. That's it. Wouldn't it be f-ed up if I laid these chicks even knowing that it wouldn't do anything for me? Because I owed it to them or something? Your logic is entirely false and one sided. And Jesus, Moose, grow a pair. Turn the tables, make it a man and woman, and see how 'cruel' you think it is.\ And Jersey, in the years I have lurked here, and year that I have posted here, I have never agreed with you once. I think that is pretty uncanny. I doubt we could agree on the color of an orange. Anyway, you are wrong, again, this doesn't stem from insecurity. Also-- why does everyone think that the no distended vagina, no cellulite, no pepperoni nips standard is impossible. The vast majority of the 70+ women I have been with and much higher number I have fooled around with, met this standard. Edited December 25, 2009 by Throne Of Lies
thegreatmoose Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 And Jesus, Moose, grow a pair. Turn the tables, make it a man and woman, and see how 'cruel' you think it is. I have a pair and I am a man in case that was not clear. It's people like you that damage some women's self esteem, which often makes them wary of men in general. Not a good thing for anybody.
TheBritishGuy Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 You shouldn't really worry about all this ladies it isn't hard to assume most men are somewhat shallow but I'd be surprised if a man refused to have sex with you because your breasts weren't big enough or you had a stretch mark. End of the day when you recieve a rose you don't look at that one damaged petal you take in the rose for all it is. If you are a woman that has many great features and thinks one little defect detracts from you in such a big way then your either dating the wrong guys or your beating yourself up needlessly.
diansunarko Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I agree if a woman's naked body is VERY important to men. However, you may be surprised as to what different men's tastes are. I think women are actually far more critical of their own bodies than men are.
v g Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 (edited) Wow, let's judge shall we? You don't know me. Honestly? I have a heavy heavy trigger. Imagine if maybe one in three partners you had could get you off for a minute. I'm not demanding your sympathy, because I don't really care about you, I'm just trying to get you to understand. To repeat: I don't have issue with the fact that you require women to be pretty naked. What is attractive to you is a requirement for you. That's fine. It's the way you go about obtaining it that's an issue for me. Plus, how do you propose I go about things? If I state my demands up front you and I both know I am going to get nowhere. The only way to do things under my constraints is the way that I do things. Do you think that came to possess the ability to turn down sex with girls by not having respect for women? Get a clue. Oh, so you do respect women. Got it. Good to know. Regarding how to go about things, I dunno. Perhaps some male LS'ers can share how they might handle this situation. I'm simply offering that the way you're going about it now is good for you and crappy for these women. Fact- I have much higher standards than most men, not out of ego or anything, just these imperfections make it impossible for me to orgasm. That's it. Wouldn't it be f-ed up if I laid these chicks even knowing that it wouldn't do anything for me? Because I owed it to them or something? Your logic is entirely false and one sided. No, I'm not at all suggesting that you go ahead and sleep with them. I'm simply offering that the way you're going about it now is good for you and crappy for these women. I have a pair and I am a man in case that was not clear. It's people like you that damage some women's self esteem, which often makes them wary of men in general. Not a good thing for anybody. Agreed. So what do you suggest that I do? I'm wondering how you tell these women. Do you feign a headache? I suppose you could pretend that you have a girlfriend and pretend to realize that you just can't go through with it. Edited December 25, 2009 by v g
Throne Of Lies Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 So you admit that you have NO idea how to handle that situation, but you are still critiquing my method? Is that about right? Oh, you had that one idea, where I pretend to be a cheating liar, that sounds wonderful! I should use that one! Because the truth is always the worst thing, right? And if someone can't handle it you should carefully insulate their fragile little egos from it, so the big bad one night stand partner doesn't hurt their widdle fewling!
PJKino Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 So you admit that you have NO idea how to handle that situation, but you are still critiquing my method? Is that about right? Oh, you had that one idea, where I pretend to be a cheating liar, that sounds wonderful! I should use that one! Because the truth is always the worst thing, right? And if someone can't handle it you should carefully insulate their fragile little egos from it, so the big bad one night stand partner doesn't hurt their widdle fewling! Dont pay attention to these broads,if theyre not found universally attractive by everyone they throw a hissy fit Theyres been plenty of derogatory posts by WOmen about Men and and what they dislike here but u cant talk about your preferences if youre a man because you might offend these delicate little flowers:rolleyes: Women can dish it out but cant take it..
carhill Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Women can dish it out but cant take it.. Haven't you gotten that memo? They don't have to. Respect the power of the p*ssy
PJKino Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Haven't you gotten that memo? They don't have to. Respect the power of the p*ssy These women are a trip on here Theyres been threads Killing guys because he doesnt have a big penis isnt over 6 feet and doesnt last an hour in the bedroom and laughing about it yet one guy makes some controversial statement and he should be hung in public.. Dont dish it out if u cant take it
carhill Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Oh, here's another memo..... notice the color of this forum? It's not blue...
threebyfate Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 This thread makes me sad. Such a waste.
carhill Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 The OP, a well-respected long-time poster, asks: so guys, what do you think? would a girls imperfect body turn you off? Some guys say yes. Some guys say no. Some guys say it depends. All perspectives are valid. The men/boys share what they think. It's Christmas. Celebrate. Press as much flesh with that imperfect body as you can. You only get one chance. This guy says no.
threebyfate Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 The thread itself isn't a waste, just the bitterness.
jerbear Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 I used to be bitter and after attending an lingerie party; I CAN APPRECIATE the female form. I have watched BBC's Britain's Missing Top Model and now appreciate ALL female bodies.
carhill Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 A woman (singular or plural) uses her beauty (that imperfect body) and her charm to deceive a man. The man connects certain aspects of physicality with negative past experiences and forms a preconception of how events will happen. He is embittered. Neutralize the gender. The psychology is self-evident. What becomes of that embittered state is up to each person. If the embittered state is responsible for the man's perspective of a woman's imperfect body, that is his perspective. We can debate the health of it. Again, neutralize the gender. Careful now. Mirrors are interesting devices One man's opinion, and that of a man who has been called 'embittered' by women here. YMMV
v g Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 So what do you suggest that I do? A friend of a friend had been in the same situation and had told the woman that he just didn't feel the chemistry and then left. He got out of it and in a more kind way.
Throne Of Lies Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 (edited) Do you think that I'm saying to these women "Wow, you have a saggy rack, I think I left the oven on." ? Do you think I just tell them point blank that I think they are ugly? I usually just change my mind and leave. I don't owe anyone an explanation. If a chick thinks I'm out of my gourd, that's fine, it's not like she has any worth to me or me her. If she thinks I'm leaving because of something wrong with her, she's right, and maybe she will fix it. I'm being to harsh here. You are trying to be constructive and reach a consensus, which is rare. I appreciate that. I'm not overly concerned with people's feelings, but I don't go out of my way to step on them (unlike crunchy looking leaves). Edited December 26, 2009 by Throne Of Lies
sugar_and_spice Posted December 26, 2009 Posted December 26, 2009 (edited) Do you think that I'm saying to these women "Wow, you have a saggy rack, I think I left the oven on." ? Do you think I just tell them point blank that I think they are ugly? I usually just change my mind and leave. I don't owe anyone an explanation. If a chick thinks I'm out of my gourd, that's fine, it's not like she has any worth to me or me her. If she thinks I'm leaving because of something wrong with her, she's right, and maybe she will fix it. I'm being to harsh here. You are trying to be constructive and reach a consensus, which is rare. I appreciate that. I'm not overly concerned with people's feelings, but I don't go out of my way to step on them (unlike crunchy looking leaves). so just because a woman's boobs are a little saggy, she has some cellulite, or she has stretch marks , she become ugly, and you actually walk out on women you date for such reasons? Wow. Edited December 26, 2009 by sugar_and_spice
Author Lishy Posted December 27, 2009 Author Posted December 27, 2009 so just because a woman's boobs are a little saggy, she has some cellulite, or she has stretch marks , she become ugly, and you actually walk out on women you date for such reasons? Wow. That is only if he is lucky enough for them to still be there once he has taken his kit off lol I forgive him he is only about 17:p
J dub Posted December 27, 2009 Posted December 27, 2009 (edited) Can someone please tell me what a distended vagina and pepperoni nips are? Throne Of Lies: throwing out the number of females you've messed around with is completely beside the point (unless youre posting in a thread which follows accordingly, which you did - big surprise - and named a different number in there). Get over yourself. I loved what TheLoneSock said about focusing more on things that turn them ON rather than OFF when the clothes start to shed. Sounds about right. There are always going to be exceptions to the rule, sure. This topic of this thread folded like a cheap card table...sadly. Edited December 27, 2009 by J dub
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