sugar_and_spice Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Most women over the age of 12 have celluite. And cellulite has nothing to do with a woman's weight. It's genetics and the fact that women are infact women and naturally are more fatty because we the ones that have to carry your body destroying offspring only so that you can oggle girls young enough to be your daughters and fill your days staring like zombies at pornography. But don't worry. I don't much expect men to care or all the sudden gain understanding and respect for women and their bodies and what they naturally are. It's a majority rules concept Trial. I don't think men are worthless cretins. It's just the opposite. It's clear how many men think women are worthless because of external factors. How many men put women down for not having the perfect body or not being young anymore, prattling on about how desering they are as men and how undeserving they find women, especially after a certain age, forget it. Men want to take you out back and shoot you and then do the next new crop of young women. So many man-boys out there that want to play around and then want to look down on women in their own peer group for getting older. Or have expectations about women's bodies that are unreal. I know I do focus on the negative but at least I am being honest about how men are so that I hopefully will be less hurt by the way most guys behave today then I already am. I was really navie when I was younger and that hurt more. I'm just trying to honest now so that I am prepared for the very realistic and crappy things most men seem to do or think about women. Agree with all the points you made.
DarkestChapter Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 so guys, what do you think? would a girls imperfect body turn you off? I wouldn't be. The girl I'm currently dating now has an A cup, and is 5 feet and 2 inches tall, yet, I've never been more attracted to another human being in my life. To tell you the truth, I don't put much emphasis on a female's body. I believe a woman's face (especially her eyes) is vital for physical attraction. As long as I find a woman's face attractive, and her body is healthy, I couldn't care less about such "imperfections". No one is perfect.
shadowplay Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I wouldn't be. The girl I'm currently dating now has an A cup, and is 5 feet and 2 inches tall, yet, I've never been more attracted to another human being in my life. To tell you the truth, I don't put much emphasis on a female's body. I believe a woman's face (especially her eyes) is vital for physical attraction. As long as I find a woman's face attractive, and her body is healthy, I couldn't care less about such "imperfections". No one is perfect. Yeah, but face is equally as superficial and physical. So you obviously do care about imperfections. Not many women are blessed with very attractive faces.
DarkestChapter Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Yeah, but face is equally as superficial and physical. So you obviously do care about imperfections. Not many women are blessed with very attractive faces. I know that, but this post deals with the issue of a woman's bodily attributes, not facial. I know I'm superficial when it comes to physical attraction, same like every human being out there. I didn't say I wasn't.
meerkat stew Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I like a really tall vagina, it just makes me feel more protected. Yes, that is some shallow, but it's just a preference. I live in heels and having a vagina way down below me in my heels just doesn't feel right aesthetically. Also like a very confident vagina. With vaginas, it's all about confidence and attitude. Men can "smell" a bad or negative attitude on a vagina a mile away, and that can be a huge turnoff. Men also want an ambitious, financially secure vagina. Few men tolerate a couch potato vagina that sits around and plays Xbox all day. When I see an obviously affluent, dynamic vagina, it really turns me on. And let's be honest, men like the secure feeling that somewhere deep in a vagina is a pot o gold that can provide financial stability. There is always the argument that men only go for alpha, douchebag type vaginas, as opposed to beta, and there's some truth in that, because alpha vaginas are inherently more honest about seeking their goals in life, not sitting on the sidelines as is so often the case with beta vaginas.
shadowplay Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I know that, but this post deals with the issue of a woman's bodily attributes, not facial. I know I'm superficial when it comes to physical attraction, same like every human being out there. I didn't say I wasn't. I wrote that because I got the sense you were implying you were less superficial for only caring about faces. Not everyone is superficial. It's all a matter of degree. Some people rate physical attractiveness as a lower priority than others.
carhill Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I was wondering what that smell was, but it's really not important
AD1980 Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 I like a really tall vagina, it just makes me feel more protected. Yes, that is some shallow, but it's just a preference. I live in heels and having a vagina way down below me in my heels just doesn't feel right aesthetically. Also like a very confident vagina. With vaginas, it's all about confidence and attitude. Men can "smell" a bad or negative attitude on a vagina a mile away, and that can be a huge turnoff. Men also want an ambitious, financially secure vagina. Few men tolerate a couch potato vagina that sits around and plays Xbox all day. When I see an obviously affluent, dynamic vagina, it really turns me on. And let's be honest, men like the secure feeling that somewhere deep in a vagina is a pot o gold that can provide financial stability. There is always the argument that men only go for alpha, douchebag type vaginas, as opposed to beta, and there's some truth in that, because alpha vaginas are inherently more honest about seeking their goals in life, not sitting on the sidelines as is so often the case with beta vaginas. You cant blame us for being so picky and shallow when its hardwired into us what we look for in our vagina.. Its out of our control..
Miko Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Personally I think MOST guys aren't overly concerned really. Once you've seen a handful of naked bodies you kind of know what to expect before hand anyway. Most guys I know seem like they'll F*** anyone & like it, even most of the super good looking types don't seem to care much. Me, I'm pretty damn skinny so I like thin girls but that's just MY thing. If I can't toss you across the room I'm not into it. Everyone's got 1 thing and they'll be sizing you up for whatever that 1 thing is before you ever get naked anyway. After all, if you're hot, you're hot and no one's perfect. If you have kids and the guy knows it he'll expect some stretch marks and if he's still around then he don't care obviously so no worries babe.
sonicranger Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I've seen stretch marks, cellulite, a lot of "extra padding", saggy boobs, ugly pussies, hairy pussies you name it... I can say that, superficially speaking, I prefer a pretty pussy, a really nice ass, has to be nice n cushy. Boobs, they have to have character, matching nipples and aereolas if you know what I mean. My current gf has a few stretch marks on her thighs, B cups, a little belly and the best ass I've ever felt in my life. Of course she hates her ass and wants to lose her little belly both of which I think are the sexiest parts of her body. So, thats all the superficial stuff. In reality, does a lot of that matter to me, not really at all...tho I probably couldn't handle being with a really skinny girl...by that I mean 130 pounds or less most likely, they just don't have enough padding for me. Oh and for the guys, you'd be surprised at how much your girl ACTUALLY weighs. Though most women it's like selling their soul to the devil to divulge such information to a man. Your "average" skinny girl probably runs about 110-120 pounds. A "nice" looking girl with a bit of an ass and such is going 130-140. A lot of good looking girls are 130-160. In my opinion. Go ahead and chastise me now...
Throne Of Lies Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Oh and for the guys, you'd be surprised at how much your girl ACTUALLY weighs. Though most women it's like selling their soul to the devil to divulge such information to a man. Your "average" skinny girl probably runs about 110-120 pounds. A "nice" looking girl with a bit of an ass and such is going 130-140. A lot of good looking girls are 130-160. In my opinion. I definitely agree with this. I am always suprised by how much heavier girls are than they appear to be. Even when you pick them up, they just don't seem to weigh 130 ish pounds. This is especially strange when you compare them to a 130 pound man. I have two friends, a man and a woman, who are both 130 pounds, and the man towers over her by a foot, and is broader in every aspect. She looks so dainty next to him, but they are actually the same mass. I don't understand how this works as mens' composition is skewed towards muscle and bones where womens' is skewed towards organ and fat, so it seems that men should be heavier than they appear, not vice versa. Being pretty naked is a pretty big deal to me, sorry. I've turned down sex before when the girl got naked and it wasn't pretty. Several times, with different partners actually. Pretty much what you would expect- ugly protruding vaginas, weird boobs, paunch and stretch marks, cellulite. It looks like I am an outlier though, according to this thread, so you should be fine.
meerkat stew Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 She looks so dainty next to him, but they are actually the same mass. Women have rocks in their heads. Rocks are heavy.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I am reading lots of posts about womens hang ups with their bodies and would like to know what men really think Every single girl I know how certain issues with their bodies including me My friend is obsessed with her cellulite and my other friend is obsessed with her boobs, another her fat vagina and I am sooo worried about my stretch marks after having my son Now I have to say that every guy I have slept with has never had a problem with my stretchmarks but yet they make me feel sick. so guys, what do you think? would a girls imperfect body turn you off? I'd venture to say that the most important element of a woman's naked body (when she's in the company of a sex partner) is her own boldness and will to present herself to the situation. There are few places in life where "the best defense (for your insecurities) is a great offense" (more than this scenario). You decide when, you decide who, you decide how, and then boldly bring it about.
InspiredbyYou Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 There are few places in life where "the best defense (for your insecurities) is a great offense" (more than this scenario). You decide when, you decide who, you decide how, and then boldly bring it about. What you mean like when he drops his pants you laugh uncontrollably smacking your knee and pointing with your other hand as you proceed to put all your clothes back on?
sugar_and_spice Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Being pretty naked is a pretty big deal to me, sorry. I've turned down sex before when the girl got naked and it wasn't pretty. Several times, with different partners actually. Pretty much what you would expect- ugly protruding vaginas, weird boobs, paunch and stretch marks, cellulite. i.e. perfection. you basically want a barbie doll.
b52s Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I've seen stretch marks, cellulite, a lot of "extra padding", saggy boobs, ugly pussies, hairy pussies you name it... I can say that, superficially speaking, I prefer a pretty pussy, a really nice ass, has to be nice n cushy. Boobs, they have to have character, matching nipples and aereolas if you know what I mean. My current gf has a few stretch marks on her thighs, B cups, a little belly and the best ass I've ever felt in my life. Of course she hates her ass and wants to lose her little belly both of which I think are the sexiest parts of her body. So, thats all the superficial stuff. In reality, does a lot of that matter to me, not really at all...tho I probably couldn't handle being with a really skinny girl...by that I mean 130 pounds or less most likely, they just don't have enough padding for me. Oh and for the guys, you'd be surprised at how much your girl ACTUALLY weighs. Though most women it's like selling their soul to the devil to divulge such information to a man. Your "average" skinny girl probably runs about 110-120 pounds. A "nice" looking girl with a bit of an ass and such is going 130-140. A lot of good looking girls are 130-160. In my opinion. Go ahead and chastise me now... You consider 130 lbs skinny? LOL figured that'd be average wt. depending on the ht. True, there are some chunky girls that look pretty hot....IF....they have proportionate weight on them.
Jersey Shortie Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Being pretty naked is a pretty big deal to me, sorry. I've turned down sex before when the girl got naked and it wasn't pretty. Several times, with different partners actually. Pretty much what you would expect- ugly protruding vaginas, weird boobs, paunch and stretch marks, cellulite. It looks like I am an outlier though, according to this thread, so you should be fine. I think in this person's case, this level of disrespect towards someone your about to be intimate with, is more about this person's personal insecurities and feelings of inadequacies and issues of control or power. Of coures, this type of person would never admit to that. But it's clear that this is more about power and control and their own insecurities. Hopefully, most men don't secretly think this way. And if they do, it's just another example about how twisted some men can be on knowing what real women are about instead of them filling their days with fantasy images of women. It's really sad how many men don't know anything about women.
You'reasian Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I think in this person's case, this level of disrespect towards someone your about to be intimate with, is more about this person's personal insecurities and feelings of inadequacies and issues of control or power. Of coures, this type of person would never admit to that. But it's clear that this is more about power and control and their own insecurities. Hopefully, most men don't secretly think this way. And if they do, it's just another example about how twisted some men can be on knowing what real women are about instead of them filling their days with fantasy images of women. It's really sad how many men don't know anything about women. You know what I find attractive? A woman whose genuine, happy, trustworthy and honest. Yep. I don't care if she's a little thin or a little overweight as long as she takes care of herself.
reboot Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Runway model type bodies don't do a thing for me. Imperfections can be sexy as hell. It's all about what you do with it anyway. Besides, as you get older, you realize that's why they invented dimmer switches.
sonicranger Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 You consider 130 lbs skinny? LOL figured that'd be average wt. depending on the ht. True, there are some chunky girls that look pretty hot....IF....they have proportionate weight on them. Well, you are right in that its very hard to "nail down" a good average number because of the height variable. It's like so many other social constructs. Very hard to have just one or two numbers. It's pretty much infinite isn't it. Bottom line is to me, it really doesn't matter, tho I do find that women with no perceptible butt are unattractive to me. I like what You'reasian said too. This is the most important part but UNLIKE eharmony, who claims that based only on intangibles two people can be a match. I'm sorry but if you don't find someone at least "cute" or "ok looking" then I doubt it will work as magically as they claim.
Island Girl Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 (edited) Hopefully, most men don't secretly think this way. And if they do, it's just another example about how twisted some men can be on knowing what real women are about instead of them filling their days with fantasy images of women. It's really sad how many men don't know anything about women. You just illustrated a perfect logical fallacy. There is another thread going on where you could transfer this... It seems given any topic and you will turn it into THIS point. MOST of the men here (save one or two) have stated the opposite of your point. But you refuse to acknowledge that at all. Probably because all of THOSE posts are not conducive to your perspective. Really?? Edited December 24, 2009 by Island Girl
Jaytb Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 You just illustrated a perfect logical fallacy. There is another thread going on where you could transfer this... It seems given any topic and you will turn it into THIS point. MOST of the men here (save one or two) have stated the opposite of your point. But you refuse to acknowledge that at all. Probably because all of THOSE posts are not conducive to your perspective. Really?? that poster just doesn't listen (like a lot of the other hurt/insecure/lonely/defeatist/etc posters). Believe me, I've tried.
dnm Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 (edited) I think Jersey is not just talking about the guys on this thread. In general, there are many men who are like that, especially the younger lot. Edited December 24, 2009 by dnm
Island Girl Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 I think Jersey is not just talking about the guys on this thread. In general, there are many men who are like that, especially the younger lot. There is a cross section of men here on LS. No one group is over represented. The male posters here vary in age as well as probably any other general "group" you'd like to present. Just about all of them have said they understand women aren't perfect. A few have mentioned they find what a woman would view as problems with their own bodies as something that man finds special and attractive. There are "many" men out there who want the hot body yes. They are represented here by one or two posters. We have a lot of men in this world. Of course "many" think this way. The point is that MANY MORE don't. To continually say "men are this way or that way" contrary to all evidence that states otherwise is RIDICULOUS. And no matter how many times JS states this same point - rephrased differently again and again - does not make it fact.
PJKino Posted December 24, 2009 Posted December 24, 2009 Im sure Jersey had no problems withe post where women on here almsot pleasured themselves over the keyboard talking about how they love six packs and man with biceps yet if one man states he likes a great body on a women hes a pig Women seem to judge mens bodies harshly yet dont wanna be judged harshly themslves..Hillarious
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