Is he playing hard to get or has he lost interest?

[soconfusing]

I started seeing this guy a few weeks ago and the dates we've gone on have been so much fun and he especially has never hesitated to make that very clear to me. But during the week, we just communicate mostly be text and the occasional phone call. I had invited him over to my house the other week, which he declined because he had to help with a family business issue... I automatically took that as a little rejection. But, the next day, he sent me an email apologizing and insisting he was going to take me out next week and make it all about me. But, the texting has gotten less and of course the calls have gotten to almost nothing. We met online and once I started feeling like he wasn't that into me, I started logging on again. Unfortunately, you can see when someone has logged on and he caught me on there. However, we had agreed that we'd still see other people until we agreed on exclusivity. But, I don't know if that completely turned him off when he saw me online...

 

So now I'm left wondering if he is playing hard to get... or if he has basically lost interest.

[2sunny]

sounds like he might have found someone else he's spending most of his energy on. if he was THAT interested - he would be putting a LOT of time and energy into trying to spend time with you.

 

evidently - he has interests somewhere besides you.

[whichwayisup]

If he saw you online, doesn't that mean HE was online too? I take it you mean a dating site.

 

Anyway, I would back off abit and let him approach/call you next. When he calls, see how you feel then and maybe go out again, or ask him what he feels?