wife Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Going to go meet ex half way in a little while to bring my son's home for the THanksgiving week! It's so exciting but I get so happy and yet so angry at the same time! Excited to see them, angry it has to be like this..and the fact that he can't make the trip alone, he has to bring his momma or the girlfriend both make me want to vomit! Such is the life of co-parenting/custody/ex stuff! Can't let go of a lot of resentment towards them. But I won't show it, won't let my kids know. I'm going to smile, be joyous and focus on THEM! but I cant help to go back to "hating" my ex, his momma and the gf and dwelling on all the crap they say/do. I hardly ever go online when my kids are here with us. Anyway, have a great turkeyday all of you great parents!!
Boundary Problem Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 The happier you become in your new life, the genuinely indifferent you will become to them. My mother-in-law talks now (or my ex) and usually within 1 minute I have them out the door. Politely, but firmly. Life is just too precious to spend with people who haven't demonstrated themselves worthy of your time on a going forward basis.
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