Eclypse Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Howdy, I'm not sure what this all means. There is this girl who keeps on contacting me. She has written on my facebook wall almost every day for the last few weeks, most of them unprompted. Each post always ending with "xoxoxoxoxox" or "loveeeeee youuuuuu" She is the ex of one of my best friends, and he was crying for weeks after she dumped him for another guy. She's still with this guy it seems, but lately she's been contacting me non stop with those sorts of messages. I don't think he knows about her posts. I'm not really sure what to make of all it. I think my friend feels bad that she keeps doing this, judging from his statuses and comments etc. I've been told she's trouble. The problem is that I think I have started to develop feelings for her. She was there for me (one of the only ones) during a recent hard time. She really helped support me, and I guess I'm just a sucker. Next time I see her we will all be under the influence of alcohol. I'm worried what would happen if we did hook up. I'm not sure if my friend would take to it nicely. But alas I really have been having trouble getting her out of my head.
jerseyboy Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 She could just be screwing with her ex, who as your friend (from what you wrote) reads your page. But I would guess shes flirting for sure.
jerseyboy Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Btw Looking forward to the "I think my new gf is cheating on me" threads to follow She sounds like a winner
dreamergrl Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Suure, go lose a friend over a girl who has a boyfriend, and start the whole Jerry Springer side show.
VeveCakes Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 haha yeah this girl is totally trying to piss of her ex and probably wedge between you two. Are you really THAT dumb, to even consider getting with this chick? bad news written all over it bud! Take a pass and wait for the next one.
Phateless Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Howdy, I'm not sure what this all means. There is this girl who keeps on contacting me. She has written on my facebook wall almost every day for the last few weeks, most of them unprompted. Each post always ending with "xoxoxoxoxox" or "loveeeeee youuuuuu" She is the ex of one of my best friends, and he was crying for weeks after she dumped him for another guy. She's still with this guy it seems, but lately she's been contacting me non stop with those sorts of messages. I don't think he knows about her posts. I'm not really sure what to make of all it. I think my friend feels bad that she keeps doing this, judging from his statuses and comments etc. I've been told she's trouble. The problem is that I think I have started to develop feelings for her. She was there for me (one of the only ones) during a recent hard time. She really helped support me, and I guess I'm just a sucker. Next time I see her we will all be under the influence of alcohol. I'm worried what would happen if we did hook up. I'm not sure if my friend would take to it nicely. But alas I really have been having trouble getting her out of my head. If you hook up with this girl, you deserve whatever heartache comes your way because you did it to yourself. I'm gonna tell you RIGHT NOW that I will have no sympathy for you if you get involved with this girl. Are you prepared to throw away one of your friends?
TheLoneSock Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Put the girl in her place. Send her a message that says "Shut the f*ck up." and leave it at that.
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