thegoose Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Ok I have a GF and I am feeling better about myself most days. The pain is slowly going away............but I still think of her constantly...its driving me nuts and draining me ....I mean I don't think about anything else.....I know I will always love her and miss her.....I just want her out of my mind or to come back....hehe.... any suggestions about personal mind control I feel like I have tried everything..meditation...being a slut....burning her stuff..writing in a journal..make crazy noises when she comes in my mind...slapping myself... positive affirmations... is it possible that she does not think of me and I think of her constantly for the last 2 months... is it just my ego....help....
nobleguy Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 All sounds like pretty normal behaviour believe it or not. I've been through pretty much all of those in some form or another. It just occupies every moment of your thoughts form the moment you wake to the moment you go to sleep. Horrible to be so prepoccupied with such negative feelings constantly. I honestly feel that I'm coming out the other side a little bit, and although I do obviously still think of her my emotions surrounding those thoughts have calmed significantly recently.
neoskunk Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 I know the feeling man. I can't stop thinking about my girl either. It's only been two weeks for me but still I know how you feel. It makes me feel a little better when I hang out with my friends and go to parties. Unless you were dating a super model there is generally eye candy to be found. You managed to get your GF once upon a time, I would bet money you can get another one. Just my thinking but I'm relatively new to this too just wanted to let you know you aren't the only one. Also I'm in college so parties and hot girls aren't too terribly hard to come by.
j_cali_man Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Yeah, Went out with friends and it was a hottie conveyor belt in the bar. Funny thing is that my buddies and I had sore necks from all of the lookin that night but I had no interest in talking to or hooking up with anyone. Head kept saying "Damn it would of been fun is *** was here". Mind plays tricks on me.. About 3 weeks in.... J
HokeyPokey Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 I had one breakup from a short five month relationship that took me like nine months to finally get over that heart-piercing pain. You know, where you can actually feel a pair of cold hands ripping your heart apart. Then it took another few months to get rid of the dull throb left behind. THEN, a few more months until he didn't matter to me at all, and I actually was able to laugh at the pain and start to question why I even cared about him in the first place. Sucks.
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