1994 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 I told her several days ago I gave up on trying to get her back. We both agreed to remain friends. I talked to her today, but she told me she was not over me. She would be really hurt if I dated someone else. I broke up with my Ex. She still wants to work it out. She wants to earn my trust, but at the same time she wants us to date other people. Also, I haven't been able to see her in 2 weeks, and it seems like she's doing it on purpose. My thoughts are she's keeping me around as her rebound in case it doesn't work out with a guy she went on a date with. Any suggestions?
melja Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Your ex is hurting because you dumped her. She wants to get back with you and see other people so she doesn't get too emotionally invested in you. She is trying to not be too available by making you wait 2 weeks to see her. It is working. If she wanted someone else she wouldn't even bother getting back with you. Get back together, let her see other guys, but show her by your actions what she means to you and they will not stand a chance. Take things slowly and let the relationship develop with strong foundations. Good luck.
Von Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Geez talk about mixed signals. So let me get this straight, you dumped her (why?)... she Wants you guys to date other people, but would be hurt if you did, Wants to work it out yet won't see you. I mean, usually it's the dumper (you) who strings the other one along. If I were you, I'd either tell her you guys need to meet up and talk things over, To camly talk about starting over or ending it for good....or walk away and go no contact so that she'll fear losing you and miss you and maybe she'll realize she wants only you. Maybe someone else will have another idea, but that's just advice, whatever you do it's ultimately your decision.
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