User320 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 So its only been 4 days ( nothing i know) and this forum has kept me sane , so first off id like to thank all of you who have the courage to post here, you all have my respect. like i said only four days since my Year and a few months relationship ended.. tonight i just about lost myself...i was making her favorite dish..not to remind myself, but to feed my parents... and in the middle of eating it(shepherd's pie) i broke down and cried all over my dish, First time ive really cried since we ended it...i felt so childish, lame..and like a loser.. But it felt so good to just cry and cry and cry.... Is this normal...like the delay in emotion? The never ending fountain of sadness that are my tears?
USMCHokie Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Welcome to the club...I'm glad you're letting your emotions out...bottling it up can sometimes make things worse... It'll be a long bumpy ride, but you'll come out better for it...
j_cali_man Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Don't sweat it, I'm betting most of the dudes here had at least a day or two with some meltdowns (crying). It caught me off guard and was a few days in too. Just chilled in my place, got it out of my system, and have been dealing with the punched in the gut feeling for a few weeks now. It does get better. Get out with some other guys and have some fun even if you don't feel like it...because you won't. Hang in there man, J
sean1970 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Is this normal...like the delay in emotion? The never ending fountain of sadness that are my tears? Could not be more normal. Shows you care; about her, and what is happening to you. I would like to tell you it will be the last time but probably not. Make it one more day, make all the posts you need. We are here for you...
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