indriyani Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 break the NC rule and my ex and I reconnect and the destruction starts all over within a week or two. I'm on my third month and I'm itching to call him and say "hey" - I know it sounds pretty pathetic but for 4 years we were best friends. I know I don't have to stress that to anyone in here, we're all in similar situations one way or another. what I'm posting for is I'd love to talk to someone in here, maybe on AIM or something? The last thing I want to do is contact him, and I feel like if I have someone to talk to about it - I'll lessen my chances. I have plenty of friends, supportive parents/siblings - but the hatred they have for my ex makes them dismissive about the subject. If anyone wants to talk, IM me at cmspirito - or just reply to this thread. I'll be around trying to resist charging my cell phone so I can call him. I'm a great listener and I love dispensing advice, as well.
j_cali_man Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 You have a pattern of doing the right thing (mixed with some lapses in between) but soemtimes the risk of the pain vs the potential of something being rekindled makes us go for it. Have you been following the outline on the forums about second chances? Seems like he is all over the place with his emotions...and you are too. painful... J
User320 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 me and my ex have taken numerous breaks, and its always me who messed it i up, like tonight im on the verge of going crazy...i want to talk to her so bad, i have butterflies, i cant focus...nothing. But i try my best to be strong. this forum is the only outlet i have.. so i know how you feel about needing someone to talk to.... You can do it, you must break the cycle its the only way to make things truly better
j_cali_man Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Oh, and no AIM btw. Have yahoo though. I'm online too to keep soem sanity and resist temptation too. J
USMCHokie Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 aim - pepsi duck i'm always around for talking about this crap...it kind of eases the mind and reassures you that you're on the right path... indriyani, you've got to learn from your mistakes!! if doing what you want to do always ends in disaster, then you have to stop!!
sean1970 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 i'm always around for talking about this crap.. Priceless
sean1970 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 I know it sounds pretty pathetic but for 4 years we were best friends. Nothing pathetic about it... We have all been there; many of us still are... PM me if you want to talk....
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