Weezy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 I broke down and checked her online photo album and facebook... No pics of BF.. Her photo album still has all our pics up there. It's been over 2 months of NC either way since break. She wanted to get married up until 3 weeks before break. Tempted to break NC and try and talk to her, think I'm ready to marry her, but I don't wanna shoot myself in the foot.
Tayla Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Save the ammo, and save the talk for at least another few months. Give yourself time to literally figure out what has changed in you to allow her to want to re-connect. Did your behaviour change? Have you absorbed the consequences of both your actions? Can you love her enough to let her go? Can you love yourself enough to let go? People want that which they temporarily cannot have. WHat you are saying is you want this person permanently in your life...are you really sure of that? The only folks I've had permanently are my children and some days I question that decision Luckily I get a wonderful answer ... a grandson.
rp123 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Save the ammo, and save the talk for at least another few months. Give yourself time to literally figure out what has changed in you to allow her to want to re-connect. Did your behaviour change? Have you absorbed the consequences of both your actions? Can you love her enough to let her go? Can you love yourself enough to let go? People want that which they temporarily cannot have. WHat you are saying is you want this person permanently in your life...are you really sure of that? The only folks I've had permanently are my children and some days I question that decision Luckily I get a wonderful answer ... a grandson. This has got to be one of the best quotes I've read on LS. So simple, So true....
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