TapiocaDexterin Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 JUst checked his facebook and saw that his car broke down and he is stranded in a town somewhere for the night. I just want to reach out to him and talk to him. I hate that he is even on a car journey that I knew nothing about. (20 days NC) I just miss my boy...
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 why is the facebook habit so hard to kick? I have unfriended him but still he is in my network so I can look at his profile.
USMCHokie Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 You can block him to remove that temptation to check out his profile...knowing what he's up to doesn't help you...
j_cali_man Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Dang that is hard. But yea, the facebook-twitter and all of that doesn't allow the sliced open wound to heal. It just starts to close up and then reading that stuff rubs it open and raw again. T-I-M-E (which you're doing awesome with on the NC since I got a friggin F on that my first couple of attempts...) We all know its time, NC, moving on, etc etc... though. Still hurts...stay strong J
nobleguy Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 why is the facebook habit so hard to kick? I have unfriended him but still he is in my network so I can look at his profile. Block him. Seriously. I looked on FB once in the last couple of months and it killed me seeing the crap on there.
floods88 Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 I just want to reach out to him and talk to him. I just miss my boy... i feel exactly the same. its incredibly hard i know. all i want to do right now is txt him and telling im going over to his so we can watch movies and cuddle. just dont give up on the NC. stay strong. (im telling you this as well as myself)
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted November 22, 2009 Author Posted November 22, 2009 Glad to hear Im not the only one Floods! Its hard, isn't it? Im in day 23 of NC, i cant believe im come this far. This week has been hard, lots of tears. And wondering why he hasnt contacted me yet!
countingstarsagain Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 I know it's really hard to not try to find out what they're up to. My ex and his new girlfriend always have on their status' about them watching movies or going out and this and that and it tears me apart. I finally got the nerve to delete him so I couldn't see his updates. The only problem was that I had his password and I couldn't resist the temptation to get on there and look. Everytime I would regret it. It would leave me feeling horrible all over again like how I felt when I first found out he was seeing someone else. Do this for you-- Block/delete him! And try your best to not try to see what he's up to! Don't ask mutual friends. Try your best to put it out of your mind. It's really hard, I know, but you will feel much better. I would go days without looking and I'd start to feel happy and like I was moving on, then in a weak moment I'd get on there, and be crushed all over again. Trust me on this one!! If you don't ever know what he's doing anymore, you will lose that false feeling of closeness you have with him based on his status updates, and it will make all the difference to your healing.
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